have a meaningful relationship

I never had a relationship longer than a month. Sad, but true.

I think this one I’m with I’m going to stay for a long time. Just as long as I don’t rush things, & as well as he doesn’t either. Pretty much, I haven’t been with him for a month.. by the end of this month, it will make FINALLY one month together & I hope it stays like that on & on.

He was a wonderful friend & now he’s my boyfriend!! =)

I am happy & NOT getting tired of him. He treats me well. So I return the favor, I treat him well..

I just hope he’s not in rush to throw me away.

On year 3

self explanatory

With a boyfriend in the past. I don’t like the guy who the relationship was with, but the relationship itself was a big growing and maturing challenge I took on, and I still have a lot of good memories from it, despite what happened with me and the guy in the end.

He moved in. I’ve never done this before. All my guy friends are telling me this is a bad idea. Is this a new attempt to destroy my happiness.

I found someone. We were introduced by a friend and he’s perfect. It’s been two months and I’m not freaking out like I ussually do. He likes all the carzy things I do. It scares me that I will start to sabatage this relationship. But so far so good.

When I started this list I thought having a meaningful relationship was what I wanted.

I am so happy with who I am that I’m not sure I have time for any type of relationship right now.

I have so many goals to achieve with places to go and people to meet.

Where does a relationship fit in? I don’t believe it does.
I’m moving this goal from the #7 position down to last place.

You may have to do 100 first dates before you find a match that does not take effort to hold together.

Key is volume. You have to enter enemy territory and hunt where they feed. I know I guy who did well with ballet, to cite an extreme.

You have to put on a show. For example, a sports car will jazz up the image of your typical accountant type, learn to cook and develop an artistic sideline. If you are an artist, develop a practical (money generating) sideline.

You have to connect at the animal, practical and mystical levels to get a full lock.

You will love all your exs till the day you die, if you dont, you wernt doing it right.

Along with this goal should be meet someone to have this meaningful relationship with.

Im only 17 myself. But I had a relationship that lasted 7 years and then ended really badly…she died in the tsunami in asia, 2004. The thing that made me feel even worse, was that i was with another girl at the time. I haven’t been able to have a really meaningful relationship since, and its been hard to get back on track. But now i think things are looking up and the girl im with now means so much to me…I can only hope she feels the same as i do. Anywho enough of the emo depressive crap, helloooo to the ppl of 43 Things! I don’t know if anyone else lost a loved one in the tsunami but my heart goes out to those of u who did :(

I love Lucee so damn much.