Fall in love with my best friend

yup thats my babe. we been together since may of 2007. something interesting … he is a couple years younger than me, hehe. i met him when i was a senior in HS, while he was a sophomore.

we became best friends, told eachother EVERYTHING. except for the fact that i wanted more. i was afraid to lose him n BLAH BLAH, same for him. o ya did i mention he wanted more too. we were both waiting for the other to say something. FUNNY isn’t it?? how things end up. but this is the boy i’m gonna marry. he’s the ONE.

thru happy times and thru the worst of course, we are making it happen. if you want something go after it, it won’t stick around chasing you. MAKE IT HAPPEN, together TWO can make it work. GOOD LUCK to those stuck in the friend zone.

I do not really know what is happening in my head.I am really confused.I have a boyfriend 6 mounths and I have a great time with him he loves me and…but I think I love my best friend or…sth like that.Two years ago he was in love with me but than I didn t want to be with him and we became first good friends now we are best.We spend a lot of time together and have a fun.I just can t without him anymore he is always with me in good and bed times.He, he and I are so close to eachother . The fact is that I do not really know what I want and I’m too afraid of admitting to myself that I’m IN LOVE with him because there’s no certainty about how he feels and I do not want to lose him.He is very spcial to me and i like everything about him.So what to do ???

I cant believe how many blogs ive read here that are exactly the same as my predicament!! But im torn, i really am. Ive had my best friend since i was in primary/elementary school. We were inseperable ever since, we lived around the corner from eachother, and no matter what we did we always did it together, even if it was just watching crap tv. I never knew what he thought of me, sometimes i felt a spark, but mostly we just mucked around, acting like idiots and wrestling like school kids. Our mums are best friends, as are our dads and little brothers, and it just seems like it would be so perfect if we did go for it. All my other friends were quickly convinced that this was the guy for me. After high school i moved about an hour away from him. We still keep in touch, but its not the same. Im now halfway through a law degree and everyone i know is still pushing for us to go together. His mum in particular is adamant that we will someday. Shes already calling me her daughter in law, and has since primary school. We tried it in high school, we attempted to date for a week, but i didnt have the heart to risk our friendship so i quickly ended it. Ive felt guilty ever since! i even dream about it sometimes. I love him dearly, i go crazy when i dont see him but i just dont think i can let myself be attracted to him physically, mostly out of fear. The worst part is I currently have a boyfriend of one year who has no idea i feel this way. im just worried that when i finally make up my mind it will be too late…is there really such a thing as fate??

I’ve been through alot, met alot of bad people, and considered them friends.

that is of course, until i met him.
I can go on for hours about the millions of things about him that make me love him, make me want to be with him all the time, hear his voice, see his face and have him feel the same way towards me.

I question, is it love? Or am I just so amazed by the best person I’ve ever met in my life, maybe I’m just shell-shocked by him, maybe I really am in love with him. But I do know that he is my best friend, and I certainly do love him, with my whole entire heart and existence. But IN LOVE?
I wonder.
I met him through a friend of mine, I really didn’t like him at first. He and said friend dated for the longest minute and a half of my life, and broke up, and they don’t exactly speak any more. That girl isn’t as good of a friend as she once was. But he, he and I are so close to eachother, no secrets, none, except for this one.
And it kills me, I could one hundred percent go up to him and actually have a conversation about this.
Me: “I really like you, I might be in love with you, I think you’re amazing, and I worry that you don’t feel the same way as I do.”
And he would listen to me, and be just as amazing as he always is, but I’m too afraid of admitting to myself that I’m IN LOVE with him, because there’s no certainty about how he feels and it might just literally crush me.

ok so heres my story….i entered a new high school and i met new people made new friends…
in one of my classes there was this guy that was weird like a skaterboy dreesed in black and everytime he got near me i got scared and when he sat next 2 me i would ask the teacher if i could go 2 da bathroom….
i started talking to him one day and he was really cool and then we started talking more and more and now we were talking every single day joking around and eveything…..i kinda thought he had feelings for me but i thought to myslef never never hes so not my type…..i started liking thiz other guy but he turnd out to be a jerk!
the skaterboy said he was stupid to just forget him..then i started to realize that he was the nicest sweetest guy ever…..but then he told me he liked this gurl and i got really jeouluz but i told him i was happy for him and that he should totally got for it but idk….hes my best friend and idk if its love or im just confused or wat ={

My story is currently unfinished. My best friend (male) is a few years yonger than me. We met a few years ago when we worked closely together and became good friends. We are became like really close brother and sister. Since i left the workplace our friendship has become stronger and stronger. He is now the best friend that i have. He has helped me through some tough times and is always there for me. We love hanging out….. but i cant help but want more. He means the world to me and i would hate to wreck what we have. I think he would feel uncomfortable if he knew i loved him and he does not have romantic feelings for me. I would hate it if he shut me out. We live such different lives with separate friends, separate works, separate leisure interests. Girls dont usually go out with younger guys they use to tell what to do at work. I have doubts that it could ever work, even if he does love me too – but hope that something will.

I’ve had a guy(I’m a girl) best friend for about 7 years now and for the last five I’ve struggled through relationships with three other people(One of which I am currently in), while denying the fact that I am madly in love with my best friend. A part of me still wants to deny it because we are, in fact, best friends. He’s someone who comes over and stays a few day, even sleeps in my bed. Nothing sexual happens between us, other than maybe a kiss from him and lots and lots of cuddles. He moved away from home and I moved even farther away than he did, so we don’t see each other anymore. When we hung out, there was nothing else in the world I wanted to do. Just hang out with him and do something boring liek watch TV. Even being bored with him was fun. We were literally inseparable. All our friends thought we were having sex, but we truly were not. He’d sleep over at my house 3-4 times a week and we’d go to work together in the morning. He used to have feelings for me when we first met. As far as I know he does not anymore and hasn’t for a while. I, for some reason, think he does have feelings of some sort for me. He’s slept next to other girls before but hasn’t kissed them. He’s kissed me and we always cuddle in the night and morning before we woke up. Sometimes the way he looked at me really made me think there was something else, like something told me he was feeling what I was. I haven’t seen him in months and I still talk to him every day. I think of him a lot. I have dreams where he and I are together with the rest of our friends. I am in a relationship now and have been since July of 07’ but I just can’t turn off my feelings for my best friend. They’ve been with me for 5 years approx. I don’t know if it’s romantic love or just friend love. I can tell you though, there is no one like him in the whole universe. I’ve never told him how I feel for fear that he doesn’t feel the same. I don’t want things to get awkward. He’s very special to me and I adore everything about him. I can’t say that about ANYONE else. To me, my best friend is the perfect human being and I’m so grateful to have him in my life as friend or more. I don’t think I’d trade our friendship for anything in the world. When I think of him I picture beautiful fun things and I just get happy overall. I’m so madly in love with him. I just don’t know if I should tell him.

i have been thinking about this more recently and ive decided that id rather fall inlove with msomebody i personally know than someone who i think i know then wonder why i even bothered in the first place. ive heard that falling in love with your best friend can be a dangerous thing because they can know so much about you and can drive you crazy. if i didnt know any better, id say that that is waht love is, is being yourself and knowing that there is always going to be someone there to back you up. it would be kind of sweet to fall inlove your best friend say from like elementary school, because they would be like your family, but better because the lov and bond would be so pure. i could definitely see myself marrying my best friend, only if they are that special. i wouldnt want to be with someone who would make me miserable. but who knows what love is? it’s just in the books and movies right?

I never thought i’d be so lucky to fall in love with my best friend.
We met eachother when we were 7, played in the same neighborhood, our mothers became best friends. He moved to a different city when we were 11, then moved back in our Sophomore year of high school. We quickly became friends again, which led to being BEST friends, really. I didn’t have a relationship that close with some of my girl friends. He saw the worst of me, I saw the WORST of him… I even hated him for awhile, but of course, love & friendship overcomes everything.

I moved away after high school, we talked all the time… but through it all, I genuinely never had feelings for him. Then he moved to go to school with me, and we were roomies. We lived together for half a year before I started to feel differently about him. After a little while, I knew what my heart was telling me, and I told him, straight forward. He’s my best friend, i wasn’t afraid.
He admitted to me that for him, it was love at first sight, at 7 YEARS OLD! :) He’d been hiding his feelings for me that long! He loved me so much he knew he had to wait, he knew i’d come around. And that’s how I know he’s true, he didn’t give up.
Our relationship is so deep, I can’t even explain it. I think sometimes people think they’re in love, and it isn’t that.
If it’s love, YOU’LL KNOW.

uhmm..

ok heres my story:
3 years ago i entered to a new school..
i meet lots of new persons and
i get a new best friend to..
his name is paco.. i’m sure
he’s the nicer person i’ve, and i will
ever meet.. i quiclky fall in love with him
and i dont even know whyy..
it seemed like he loved me too..
but i really dont know..
the problem is that last year he went
to study to another place.. and he
met a lot of hot girls .. i think
he doesnt even miss me.. and that he felt
in love with one of them :(
last year i felt in love with another guy
too.. his name is peter
.. i told him that i loved him
and we never ever talk again..
so i was like really broken heartedd..
until paco return .. when i felt in
love with him again..
yesterday y realize that he’s
in love with one of my best friends..
her named hannah..
she has a boyfriend so i think he isnt
getting nothin from her:S
the problem is .. that now that i realized of
that i dont know if i should tell him what i feel
or if a should keep my feelings until he stops loving her..
im sure i can wait.. but i dont
know if it’ll be too latee:S
i’m afraid of loosing him forever
like i lose peter.. or of loosing
hannah.. which maybe loves him and soont love
his boyfriend:S
should anyone give me an advicee?:S
or anything that could helpp! :(
i’m so desesperatee..!