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How I did it: Don't you just hate bitches? The feeling you get when you hear first hand what your "friends" have been saying about you at lunchtime. Horrible isn't it?
But face it, how many times have you bitched about them? About their clothes, their new haircut, their attitude, their evil tendancy to kick cats (don't ask... my teachers are weird)
So i decided to stop doing it so much.
Which is HARD when your friends don't like many people. Conversations go like this:
Friend 1: Ahhh, Jay's bugging me sooo much!
Friend 2: I hate Jay! Hey *insert name here*, do you like her?
You: Uhhhh.... yeah.
>:|
Yeah.... it's akward. If their your mate, stick up for them!
Don't join in bitching sessions, don't start them, remember, join another convo if needs be but DON'T BITCH SOOOO MUCH!!
xxx
Good luck
Admitting the problem is half the problem, not just to myself, but to another human being. And since at the end of the day I’d be wondering how I could take that attitude with MY BOSS (!), I had a chat with him today, acknowledging that I knew my attitude lately was crappy and that I was going to be doing some soul-searching to figure out why. I’m very lucky, he’s a super nice guy and extremely open to my “self-improvement” techniques.
Good :) I randomly pick leaves or lay my head down and switch off if people are being bitchy.
“Bitch” of the day was complaining that a guy that was really sweaty had just lay his body on the pole i was hanging onto on a packed bus…. ewwww…. but it’s not his fault for having PE last ;)
Getting better at this :)
One more week.
If i can make it through this week without saying anything, I’ll take it off my list, and thats that :)
I think i may need to get a tattoo. “STOP BEING BITCHY!” That would definetly help.
But I’m happy, i’ve went throughout today without bitching. Thats a lie actually. I called Jonathan a prick but that’s because he called my friend fat and that’s just NOT nice.
awinterstale16 is new layout what? o.O
Ughhh.
So hard.
I don’t think I’ve been saying mean things lately. Maybe the ocassional remarks though. Or gossiping. Eghh.
awinterstale16 is new layout what? o.O
I think I failed again.
I have been failing.
Gotta be nice.
No matter if people around me aren’t being.
No matter if people deserve it.
gfsdfsfd.
awinterstale16 is new layout what? o.O
I’m a pretty nice person. But lately, I have these new friends, and I just seems to get caught up in the drama, and and I find myself doing bitchy things like saying mean things about these girls to my best friend in the group, or repeating things others have said. I really need to stop, or else I’m going to screw up these friendships completely. And, this just isn’t the kind of person I want to be.
Probable causes
work no real problems therehome husband gets on my nerves but nothing seriousholidays shopping is over, decided to go to Prague for Christmas Eve so not so homesick
surgery – it says in the books “may experience emotional ups and downs”, if this is what you call it. I feel like I’m going nuts sometimes. I wonder if this is what pregnant women go through, my whole body is changing. I don’t like this…
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