Doing much better at this. I still find it difficult to start or contribute to a conversation, but find it much easier to carry on one.
I also feel much more comfortable around people. Hopefully I will only get better at this…
How I did it: while i was in middle school, i think i was slightly depressed knowing how shy i was. and once i went to highschool i thought i was going to suffer from it even more. but i'm not. i don't talk to people that much, but when they talk to me i'll be more than happier to. but i still try to start conversations. i have a lot of self confidence and self esteem issues so that kind of still holds me back. and i'm tall, so i feel stupid. but, i am NOT shy. i can talk if i can't. but sometimes i don't want to. :) but i am NOT SHY! :))
Lessons & tips: just tell yourself tat you aren't shy and stay confident.
Resources: believe in yourself.
Doing much better at this. I still find it difficult to start or contribute to a conversation, but find it much easier to carry on one.
I also feel much more comfortable around people. Hopefully I will only get better at this…
When I was younger I liked to be by myself often because kids would make fun of me a lot. I suppose I didn’t ever go to many sleepovers, or even go to other people’s houses. I though that in middle school things would change but they got worse. I mean, I made some new friends but I still didn’t have a BEST friend. I’m now a freshman in high school and I really wanna make something good out of my last few years of non-adulthood. I try to walk up to people and talk to them but I just can’t seem to, or say something completely stupid. I’ve had chronic severe migraines for years now and just last week they became noticeably worse. I went to the hospital and narcotic drugs only worked for 30 mins. My mom said that these migraines are probably from stress about something, and I think it’s about me not having a TRUE best friend or the fact the guy I really care for was on and off… He said he still likes me, and he’s the smart, nice boy that doesn’t lie.
I think shyness is a big contribution. Help me please? :(
(Oh my, that was quite long! Sorry~)
i feel myself without tongue when i’m joining new company, orstarting new job. i’m very quiet, but need to learn to speak up. though I’m load and leader with my friends. So i need to workon myself, but don’t know how
Sunshine_bby is strange.
hiding myself from others, being trapped in this body of mine.
I want to let out, and be free.
Zach was saying how he and everyone else had been noticing me become more and more talkative with everyone and loads less shy. Also at gigs, where i hardly know barely 5 people there, i’ve been leaving knowing most of the crowd.. These are only local gigs though, been making myself go to them and socialise. Rather proud of myself tbh :]
I went for a job interview today. A few hours later, a girl that worked there and who was my friend called me and said that she heard my interview was good, i was just too shy. I feel like I can’t help it :(