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This is my biggest issue. I want things to happen right away. I don’t like to wait for when the “time is right”. I guess as a child I was used to getting things right away and as I got older I figured I was still entitled to certain things. This way of thinking has ruined me and as a result put me in the situation I am currently rotting away in.
After graduating from college I thought life was going to be smooth sailing and things were just going to happen for me. Instead of regrouping when things didn't work and figuring out a plan to succeed in life, I threw myself a pity party for years. All of those years wasted could have been years working towards the bigger picture. I wish I would have known back then how to do things. I didn't have direction or an example of strong work ethic/patience pays off, I thought I didn't need it because I had a degree. Now I'm still lost and struggling. I do know I need to slow down and think things through. I will continue to work on my patience as well as other areas of my life. 6 months ago
My whole life I have been a very unpatient person. I have realized that when waiting for things to happen in my life that good things only happen when you take your focus away from obsessing over your goals or hopes. When obsessing about things, nothing seems to happen but when you take a step back and focus your time and energy on something else then the original thing seems to work out. Just an observation of mine : ) 8 months ago