Well, not really. Just found someone randomly. We were introduced at the FTM conference by a mutual friend. After we walked away I said something about him being hot and my friend said, “I hear he’s a good top … and he likes boys.”
A speed-dating workshop later and that set the ball rolling.
We have a lot of common experience, and much that’s different – enough to keep it interesting. Taking things as they come for the last four months and I’m loving the pace. He lives down the street. And he needs a lot of alone time, too – so I don’t feel crowded or trapped. And there’s room for my other lovers.
Very few people know about it so I call him my secret anti-crossover boyfriend, though that’s more than what he is. I laugh hysterically when we’re together and we can get SO snarky. We’re both switches and that’s been a lot of fun.
This is an easy relationship. And I’m so grateful for that. 8 years ago