not care what others think of me

“Tis foolish to fear what you cannot avoid.”

All my life I have always cared about this. I still havn’t realized that we can only please ourselves, not others. It’s hard though when society wants us to look and act a certain way.
For example: If your bigger people think you should lose weight, and that you might be lazy?

If your small they may think your anorexic, and if you wear somwhat revealing clothing they think your skanky?

No matter what, everyone is judgemental in some way. That’s never going to change. So I’m going to be who I want to be, and be happy with myself!

iv realized that i don’t judge other people by what they ware or care if they’re makeups nice, or their skinny or bigger. i dont judge. most people dont. and they dont care about what people where or do or who are friends with. so why would people care about what i where do or hang out with. it shouldnt matter. and for those who do judge, makes EVERYONE judge them for being an asshole. there are people out there worse off then most of us here. we gota apresiate what we’ve been given and be proud of ourselves. but obviously its alot harder then it sounds.

I admire people who say, ” i dont care what other people think ”. Unfortuneatly I do. Its really not one of my strong points.