Myself wants a life well-lived
Gotta learn it fast. — 1 week ago
Soon it won’t be an option not to.
I have to be self-sufficient before I even think about being married to someone. I have to be able to stand on my own two feet and take care of myself. I want a marrage where its a partnership and not where the husband is taking care of the wife. Because NO ONE is going to control me. NO ONE!!!!!
I feel like one of the world’s useless people and depend very much on others to do things.. part of this is my mental illness, and part of it is … I’m not actually sure. But I wish I had more confidence and belief in myself that I can actually do things – anything, even stupid little things – by myself, for myself
To me being self sufficient will help me be less fearful and stand on my own two feet much easier.
i dont meen self sufficient as in i can live without the aid of family and friends but living without having to buy my electricity etc.. I want to escape and eat stuff ive grown etc…
Worth doing!
Worst thing in the world is to be in your early 20s, out of uni and still relying on your parents – I did this for about 3-4 months after uni, and was really relieved when I was fully on my own two feet financially, etc. Get out in the world is my advice, you’ll enjoy the freedom.
squirrella likes the new format.
I want to know I’m with my husband because I choose to be, always, and never to feel like I’m with him because I can’t make it on my own.