be self-sufficient

Soon it won’t be an option not to.

I don’t know why you wouldn’t want to be!

I have to be self-sufficient before I even think about being married to someone. I have to be able to stand on my own two feet and take care of myself. I want a marrage where its a partnership and not where the husband is taking care of the wife. Because NO ONE is going to control me. NO ONE!!!!!

I feel like one of the world’s useless people and depend very much on others to do things.. part of this is my mental illness, and part of it is … I’m not actually sure. But I wish I had more confidence and belief in myself that I can actually do things – anything, even stupid little things – by myself, for myself

^{Even if just for a few months.}

I want to be self-sufficient and therefore more self-satisfied

To me being self sufficient will help me be less fearful and stand on my own two feet much easier.

i dont meen self sufficient as in i can live without the aid of family and friends but living without having to buy my electricity etc.. I want to escape and eat stuff ive grown etc…

Worst thing in the world is to be in your early 20s, out of uni and still relying on your parents – I did this for about 3-4 months after uni, and was really relieved when I was fully on my own two feet financially, etc. Get out in the world is my advice, you’ll enjoy the freedom.

I want to know I’m with my husband because I choose to be, always, and never to feel like I’m with him because I can’t make it on my own.