find out who i am

i want to change my self , i want to find my self

to recover from my problems, i need to know that i can get back to being an actual person

so i have been thinking about who i am

i love skirts
flowers
books
that’s a start

i don’t now the meaning of it,but i am still trying to

My experince with “Who really am I ?” issues is deep and long! The main thing I learned, we are simply who we are. We cant change it, our personality, our appreance, our thoughts whatever we do will stay %90 same, but we can put new abilities on those. First of all, do not be free, its biggest enenmy. When a people start spendding time with himself/herself start asking too much questions like “Why do I live, Who I am, What is the purpose”, believe me you will never find the satisfy answer at all, because we already know we we are, our bads, goods, talents etc. Use time carefully, find hobies, part-time jobs, be social and active, always know what your are capable of, sometimes do bigger things! People have lines, DO GOOD WHAT YOUR ARE BEST, do not try to be like others, this is the key. Feel free, use your will power,

Knowing yourself is really about being happy when you do things that you REALLY make you happy, not the others!

Best wishes, be happy, be lifefull…

Here I am…20 years old, living in the heart of the city…and I really don’t have much of a to-do list when I wake up. No hobbies, no sporting event, no store that I could frequent…no coffee with my name on it at the local shop. I really don’t have a routine to my life.
Sure, I have a 2 yr old daughter, and wonderful boyfriend I enjoy the company of whenever we get the chance…but what am I doing to myself?
Perhaps…instead of taking these “steps” forward like you’re supposed to when you grow up…I’m taking steps back.
When I was a kid I could tell you activities I liked to do, bands I favored, instruments I would try and play, card games I would enjoy…but now? I wake up, get the kid dressed, take her to school, go to work, pick her up, and sometimes take her to the sitter while I see the boyfriend, or even take her to family for a week so they can spend time with her. But…I couldn’t tell you what my favorite activities are…hmmm. Perhaps this year, even though it has already flown, I should build some character, without being too liberal.

Im new to this but i want to find who i truly am. i was something else before but i know that wasn’t me and now im confused because i don’t know who my friends are because i chamged so much from before that i have hardly any left, and im not going back because i have changed for the better…but where do i go from now?

...I feel like I’m coping well without it. I still have my ‘moments’ but I do seem to recollect things I’ve learnt and feel more able to cope effectively without resorting to unhealthy methods than I ever have before.

Yet I still keep coming back to the question of who I am. Sometimes I feel like I am trying to meet someone else’s ideals. I try to have a quick stocktake now and again to question if I am being authentic and it disturbs me when I am unsure.

I not done with this goal though I want to be!

well i am who i am for purpose. nontheless, i must first find out who i am.

I am tall
I am ginger
My favourite bit of a song is always the bridge
I am an avoider
I am crap at small talk
I am not good with children unless they are relatated to me
I am awkward (and probably always will be)
I will probably be just a little bit fat
I am sarcastic
I am confident (sometimes)
I get super motivated for about a week at a time
I don’t cry
I listen to weird songs that no one has ever heard of
I repeat quotes off films
On bad days I always doubt myself
I like clothes that I couldn’t bring myself to wear
I think that everyone else is cooler than me
I am an avid tea drinker
I don’t get the fascination with technology
I never carry my mobile anywhere
I like books
I get stressed easily
I have too many bad habits to count
and usually at any new situation, I am scared shitless.

I think thats about it.

Lifen no doubt is the biggest master and we learn lot of things in life .We do cahnge in our approach depending on the situation we are ,i sometimes doubt about myself and thinks who am i ,what am i doing in this world ,why i am doing ,for whom i am doing .is earnig money is the most impoertant thing in life or there are other things also .

I am working in training orgainisation,but sometimes when driving back to my home i dream of a life in some mountains with a small house ,total peace surrounded by green valleys ,there i am sitting and scanning nature from its single part of dust to the big trees and trying to understand the glory of god .But as of now it certainly looks likes a dream for me .I am not saying that its difficult thing to do but you need enogh courage to do this .

Once i was passing through a river and i saw a person sitting there and talking to himself .for a while i thought he must be some mad guy just waisting his time ,but when i saw his face ,i dont know wht happen but it just got attracted towards that ,there was some flow of energy and finally i asked him
me : Hi if you dont mind can i ask you who you are ,
person : Hi , my name is steven and i am V P finance for X company.
me :sir nice to meet you,i am just curious to know with whon you are talking
Person : I know you must be thinking wht a mad guy he is ,but son after working for almost 35 years ,somemonths back i found one intresting fact
Me : sir whts tht
Person : Son i ahve been working from the age of 18 and today i am 53.My family is very happy with me because i provide them all the luxary one can give.i gave them enough time also ,
Me :Thts gud sir tht means youy are truly a successfull person
Person: Yes i am but after all this wht i found is ,that in last 35 years i have been working and doing good but was not giving time to my innnerself .was getting into stress and was never able to find the real reason for this ,but today i think i know the real reason .
Me : sir wht is tht
Person :L see we work to earn money and in that race we forget that sometimes we do certain things that are against our values ,culture.we did not remeber such things but our innerself keeps the account of all such things and he gets annoyed with you ,and you become stressfull and point out to some other reasons other then the real .you give time to everyone but how many hours or minutes in a day you give to yourself ,how many times you atlk to yourself .and thats the reason we always get confuse in defining WHO AM I .because we are not aware of this .

DEAR SON I AM FINDING THE SAME THING “WHO AM I”BUT WITH THE RIGHT APPROCH THT IS TALK TO YOURSELF KNOW WHO YOU ARE .