I´m a guy that travel a lot aroud the world. Sometimes i feel that someone could be with me to talk and have some fun.
How to get to know people better
How I did it: This one was made easy since this year marked the end of my high school experience. People were getting nostalgic and stuff - which meant for lots of bonding. I honestly thought I would never cross this of my list, but a year's gone by and it's done. Whoo!
Lessons & tips:
- Be open responsibly - don't just go around sharing secrets, because that's not necessarily bonding. That might make things even more uncomfortable...
- Be honest with the people you want to get to know, and they'll reciprocate.
- Don't hesitate to ask questions. If they don't want to answer, they don't have to.
Resources: Friends.
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J is amazed.
So last year I spend with the people in my grade. Might as well make the most of it. I don’t want to be one of those people who just leaves them all behind when they go ahead in life – I want them to keep with me.
I tend to judge people from their looks and I know it’s bad, but people do the same with me. It’s not about justice, but I think i can do it too. But the point is that sometimes I don’t like doing it. Like this boy in my class, i had a crush on him but I found out some weird things about him and then i stopped liking him and since then i don’t even want a friendship with him. But now he’s in my class (at that time he wasn’t) and I see he’s not a bad person, but I think it’s just my pride of saying something and keeping it. Now sometimes after I say bad stuff about him I feel bad and I wish I could know him better to change my point of view, but, I don’t know. I just can’t.
Won’t ever do this again.
don’t get me wrong – i have great friends! but there are so many new people who just joined my grade in high school and i definately would like to get to know them better. i used to be really, really shy, so it has always been hard for me. but now im breaking out of my shell: i was asked this week by my school’s admissions department to be a hostess/tour giver ingreen key!i think that confidence is a big part of this, and im definately getting more confident :-)


