be more patient with my husband

I had a big chance to do this the other day and completly blew it. I know I had a pretty good reason to completly lose it, but I could have ended sooner than I did. Must. work. harder. on. this.

I’m doing much better with this from when I added it, but then sometimes I kind of ‘blow up,’ to let off steam. The funny thing is it’s usually at a time of stress for me, that has nothing to do with him! So it’s very unfortunate to take out my own stress and frustration on him about things that aren’t that bad, or at least merit a conversation and not an argument. We been married only a few months, so it’s still a learning phase for us.

Does this sound familiar to you all? Can anyone share advice?