We keep arguing, or getting close to arguing, over stupid things, and sometimes absolutely nothing. She’s really defensive at the moment and I don’t know why. She doesn’t seem to want to talk to me about it and for some reason, lately I am biting back a little. I dont want to let things go as in the relationship; thats not what this goal is about for me – but I need to learn to let things go as in letting her be defensive for no reason and not responding with hostility. It’ll go a long way towards fixing the problems I’ve expressed in the blogs about making her happy, and if she’s happy I’m happy.
How to learn to let things go
How I did it: I looked inside myself and realized I was only hurting myself. I needed, wanted to let these feelings and things go. So I did. Little by little, I took the steps to get to the point I am at now. It's not easy of course, but it's worth it. It feels amazing to feel happy and not feel attached or held back by anything.
Lessons & tips: Set it free, be free.
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I’ve held on to some grudges for much too long now. I’m working on really letting go and honestly I’m feeling better already. I can’t say for certain that nothing will happen to trigger the feelings again but I just hope I’m ready to deal with it. I will leave the past in the past and go wiser into the future.
trish1965 is going to see a friend and have a cuddle with her new baby.
I just need to learn to let things go, become more relaxed, not try to get my own back, just thing ok let it go, its not worth it, hopefully becoming more accepting and forgiving.So that i can enjoy my life, because it is starting to interfere in my everyday life and pushes people away.
pinkgrl30 is working
just let it go! it just me miserable in the end.
xannarox is going to go with full force!
I’m still working on this.
It would be much easier if the other person let it go too…
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Girl_who_can is one happy girl...who can. :)
- How do you know that you have let go?
- How will it show in my actions, life, decisions…how do you process it completely….or will there always stay a residue of the past?
- How to accept it?
Sarah has a tummy ache from the master cleanse... bummer
Grudges and moments of stress are so hard to let go, they are hard things to pass off and just forget ever existed. I want to be self encouraging to let go when its not going to matter in 20 min. I want to teach myself that life does not have to be difficult to be amazing. It does not have to be hard, or a struggle. I am blessed with the things in my life that I do have and when yucky things happen, I need inspiration to not have to think about it anymore.
I let go of my hate. It’s too tiring, and was hurting the people I love. I needed to stop living in the past.



