be a better person

Lately a few of my friends have been pointing out that I have changed, though I think they mean it in a good way. I have noticed this much myself as well. Some of the change is on purpose and some of it just happened.
You can’t just wake up one day and be a completely different person, but everyone changes over time. Most people change to go with their surroundings and be who they think they should be not who they want to be. I am getting tired of being this person. So many people sit around and complain about the state of the world, as they do nothing about it. I want to start doing something, starting with myself.

“You are the way you are because that’s the way you want to be. If you really wanted to be any different, you would be in the process of changing right now.”

— Fred Smith: The founder of Federal Express

1. Thou shall not worry, for worry is the most unproductive of all human activities.

2. Thou shall not be fearful, for fear makes us weak, doubtful and unproductive.

3. Thou shall not cross bridges before you get to them.

4. Thou shall be honest and trustworthy at all times, in all circumstances.Honesty is the mark of a great soul; dishonesty is despicable.

5. Thou shall not take problems to bed with you for they make very poor bedfellows.

6. Thou shall not borrow other people’s problems. They can take better care of them than you can.

7. Thou shall not try to relive yesterday for good or ill – it is gone. Concentrate on what is happening in your life today.

8. Thou shall count thy blessings, never overlooking the small ones, for a lot of small blessings add up to a big one.

9. Thou shall be a good listener, for only when you listen do you hear ideas different from your own. It’s hard to learn something new when you’re talking.

10. Thou shall not become bogged-down by frustration, for 90 percent of it is rooted in self-pity and it will only interfere with positive action.

i wanna get rid of all the bad things in my personality ,and be a better person…..

i dated this who guy and he ended up cheating on me than when that finished i dated this other guy who crushed me as well than after that i relized i have never taken time for my self to heal and become stronger my greatest fear is being alone but reality sets in. I now had to face my fear i have now been alone and i have become stronger braver kinder i can now look at the postive in life theres nothing holding me down i had to stand up for myself

remember-
“NO MATTER WHAT BATTLES ARE THROWN AT YOU HOLD YOUR HEAD HIGH AND FACE THEM WITH COURAGE DIGNITY STRENGHT AND FAITH”
YUDI

so i’ll do whatever i want

The most general of goals—and the one that brings us all together.

...so I’d better muse over what this actually means for me.

I’ve always been weak with self discipline so notably stronger self discipline would be favourite.

That means planning my time so that this gives me the best chance to succeed.

The mornings are the best time to get new stuff into my head and my desktop pc (which is still working) has a very good keyboard which is much easier to use than the laptop pc.

So outline of normal weekday:-

• wake up 5 mins (decide if it’s worth getting up – of course it is!)
• get up 5 mins (slowly, so as to not unduly disturb other half)
• son time delay 10 mins
• wife time delay 10 mins
• wash face 5 mins
• shave 5 mins (5-10 mins more, if I cut myself!)
• basic yoga 10 mins (necessary: stops my joints from ceasing up)
• shower 5 mins
• dry-off / deodorant 5 mins
• get dressed 5 mins
• eat breakfast 5 mins
• prepare packed lunch 5 mins
• review errands for the day 5 mins
• self time delay 10 mins (I’m getting on, you know!)

That makes 5+5+10+10+5+5+5+5+5+5+10 = 70 mins

So to leave for work on time requires me to wake up at least 70 mins before I need to leave for work.

To get 50 mins of study (plus 5 mins setup and 5 mins pack away) means getting up 2 hours and ten minutes before I need to leave for work.

Well I can do that if it’s in the summer. Spring and fall would be troublesome and winter extremely difficult.

Actually i believe that i am a good person but there is always room for improvement.

I would like to be more involved with my community and the people around me.

What is it that I should do to become a better person? Probably if I have to ask the question than I can not find the answer within myself.

organize my life to be a better person… by learning from others on a daily basis… finishing my list every day… lose 25 pounds to be more fit and healthy for my family (and me)... to make more money to be able to do all the thing that i want to do and my family would like to do…