get a fabulous haircut

so the thing on my head is terribly frizzy, thick and never managable. i am SO tired of wearing it in a bun, but wearing it down only looks decent when it is straight. i really want a decent fricken haircut but everytime i go to the hair salons (nice ones too, not the silly cost cutters. no offense of course!) i feel like they murdered my head! they make it look AWFUL! and for some strange reason, ppl think it will be a great idea to blow dry my hair. i tell them no, it will only puff out like a the frizzy hair on a thermasilk commercial, but somehow they don’t feel the need to listen. its lame. i need someone who knows what they are doing! my hair is nothing like others. i have yet to find similar to mine! oi!