Look after myself, rather than everyone else

I’m not a welcome mat anymore!
now i notice others when they let others walk over them!
so i try to help only if they need it!
or ask!
lol

I am proud of myself and i’ll keep this going! hey it’s the new me!

Well I asked for a well deserved raise! !
will follow up friday!

I don’t know why it’s like i’m looking for the worse!
when i cook dinner for example i always take the worse bisket or slice of meat i give the good stuff away and leave my self with crap! not that it’s really crap but i’ll always do this! if there are 2 straws i take the bad one and give you the good one!
Why do i do this?
i do this with everything!
i don’t get it! how do i stop@!

Look after myself “as well as” everyone else. I do allow others’
needs to come before mine in almost every instance. As pril79 pointed out, you can’t look out for others if you are not at your best. I am not sure what steps I am going to take to achieve this goal, but I will think on it.

1. When i notice my stuff is done.
2. when i don’t think that i’m being mean when i don’t help someone else

Wow check mark on all!_~
funny i just marked this off on my list as worth it and i seen this i learned much more then these 2 things!

I always get a good lead on this and for somereason i always fall back in to this looking after everyone else until i’m in a freakin hole or my head is hardly over the water!
at least i notice this now so thats the frist step!!
i just got to remember i can’t help someone if i’m not at my peak!