make my relationship work

I’m ready to do anything to make my relationship work. I want him to realize my true worth,and also make him believe that love marriages do last.

Me and my boyfriend have been together for around 15 months. its been great until recently when he mensioned that he thinks we spend too much time together and he wants to see me less. he says he wants to spend more time with his friends, and when we are together we are either bored or we argue. i love him very much, and love being with him, but we are however, doing the same things all the time. it seems our relationship needs to be more interesting. i want him to want to be with me, and for us to enjoy our time together. i dont know what to do. any ideas?? thanks =]
Hayley x

Its tough to make a long distance relationship survive! I am trying nevertheless.. for a second time !

I’ve met my soulmate. I love him more than anything. We live such different lives. He’s a young marine and testosterone governs his decisions more than any person. We’ve broken up many times, and we’ve both called it quits before. I’m in Denver until December, and he’s in our home state of North Carolina- both of us chained to our jobs, too poor to visit one another, too determined to risk loosing our jobs. We’ve both cheated, but because of this we can both relate to the other for doing it. December will be a year since we officially called it quits. I don’t know how I’m going to make it through his 6 month state-side, 6-month deployment work schedule. I don’t know how he’s going to make it without me there if I choose to go to school in Colorado (I’m a resident here now). All I know is that in the end, no one measures up to him. I’ve dated a lot of guys that are better on paper- more reliable, more trustworthy, better paid, better educated… but no one has ever come close to mattering as much as he does in my heart. Can I make this goal happen? Time will tell…

I’ve had a best friend of the opposite sex for 6 years. We’ve lived in different states for about 5 years. He came to see me for my birthday, and we talked about getting married. We’ve always been the perfect match for eachother and both knew it. A couple months later i flew up to ask him to marry me. He accepted. 2 weeks later he tells me he wants to give his ex one last chance to make it work. What do I do about all of this? I’m frusterated and very confused.

Right now i have a good relationship, i love my boyfriend he is so sweet, and i know we have our differences. I want to make us work. Not to long ago a friend of mines boyfriend of about 3 or 4 years just up and left her and started seeing someone else. I know not that long right? It took him a week. It scared me and thinking that my boyfriend and i have only been together for about 2 years, and i thought what if that happened to me. I know it wasnt entirely his fault he left, and i dont want to leave my boyfriend any chance to doubt me. SO this is my goal.

i just told him the quits… so i guess ive given up!

i love my bf and i wanna make this work but i dont think he loves me in the same way….. he wants me to move in with him and all but he never tells me he loves me anymore and its very rare that he tells me by his act….

i guess i should just be patient….

Iv never really done this before but whatevs, first time for everything eh? my girlfriend and I have been going out for about three months but have been best friends for about a year. a few days ago she flew off the handle about some little thing and got frustrated because she said that she thought she wasnt good enough for me and she broke up with me because of it. I knew I loved her deeply but when she did that I found out just how deeply it went, it ripped me in half and shattered my spirit. now we are going to try to work things out and see what happens but its going to be strange after going through that pain and resentment even if it was only for a couple days. those feelings change you in a messed up way. my hope is that we will be able to use this all to our advantage and make the relationship stronger by setting up rules and goals for the relationship and comprimising on certain things to avoid those crazy moments of frustration.

It didn’t work. Not when there’s another girl. Given up.