forgive more, judge less

It’s not that I’d want to do this, it’s more that I need to. XDD
I judge too much. D’:

for me to forgive someone they have to hurt me and in order to hurt me they must be really close to me there was someone who was really close but not anymore who hurt me but i forgave them thinking that only humans make mistakes and because i am a human i am never going to make the mistake of being close to someone so they have a chance of hurting me it does get a bit lonley when your not close to someone but inshallah you will get used to it i’m trying and hopefully i will succed in this however i do think i am going to close to someone but i must stop myself!!!!!

I think this is an awesome goal for me to set, only because I judge so much on little things, and I dont forgive easily which is something i relaly need to do

When you forgive someone, you are actually setting yourself free, more so than the wrongdoer. Think about it. The one who hurt you is most likely not stuck in the memory of what he/she did as much as you dwell on it. So move on, let it go, and live in the here and now. Do yourself a favor and tell that person (if you can) you forgive them sincerely. For me, I forgive half-heartedly. I want to mean it completely from now on and keep living life. I have discovered how great of a relief it is to really forgive someone. I know it’s hard, but it’s worth it!

at least until i reach complete enlightenment. The good thing is that the more you practice, the easier it gets to be less judgemental and realize that what bothers you in others is because you recognize it within yourself…this one helps you think twice.
Today I avoided judging and getting mad at my boss for being rude to me for a stupid issue, when I realized how many times I must have done the same…maybe to my mom, or to my brother (usually the price payers of my rants), so I refrained.

i’d have to say that i’m not a very judgemental person. and i am very forgiving.. almost to a fault sometimes.. but maybe i’m just being too nice.
in any case, i’d like to think that i dont let any judgements take real form in my head anymore.. and i rarely hold a grudge

...and that somehow convinces me that I can judge a book by its cover. When people do things that make me feel judgemental, I have to remember that there are circumstances in their lives that I will never know about that have helped formed who they are and how they act. And moreso, it really doesn’t matter if I think someone is wrong because I’m not the ‘boss of them’. I hafta leave the judging to God, yo.