renew my old friendships

it is easier said than done :|

Anyways will try my best

its strange, some of the people i called my bestest friends just disappear. in second grade i made a pact with this boy, that we would be blood brothers. many friends come and go, but you never really know which friends will be there the longest. we still go to movies sometimes, but i have to say that we pretty much live separate lives.

facebook definitely seems to be helping with this one; the social networking site of choice amongst my sub-generation it seems.

Yesterday I called some old friends, we had not met since last Christmas Eve. The night we cheered together at a public house.

well im going to use this goal as make new friends as well. so i went to the gym with cali, i person i didn’t know but who turned out to be pretty awsome. and i also visited a friend who moved to a different town, i went a little out of my way to visit her and apparently i am the only person who has tried to visit her or even mentioned it, the sad thing is that im not even one of her closest friends…

So…renewed/made
Maria=renewed
cahli=made

to renew/make
hal
tina (reconcile)
joe
i’ll think of more later

even if i can renew one old friendship, i will consider this goal done

A lot of my goals intertwine to one basic goal of being a better me. Today I had lunch with a former co-worker from JPS Hospital. We started in the I.T. Department together when the company we worked for decided to open a new I.T. help desk, they had never done anything along that lines before. We worked together for 5 years. While in the office we would argue, bicker, and have loud, long, heated discussions about how things should be, how they were done, and what needed to change… usually we were on opposite ends of the opinions. But when lunch time, or break time came up we walked out together and got along just great.

For the last 3 years we haven’t seen each other on a regular basis, and this is the first time we were able to have lunch and really sit down and talk. It was nice reconnecting with her. We’ve made a committment to do so once every 3-4 weeks.

I started this with Classmates.com and I found an old high school friend whom I haven’t seen or talked to since about a year after graduation…

We’ve been email each other once a week just to stay in touch.

Then the other person I found moved away from my hometown before graduation and we were able to reconnect.

I’m hoping to find a very good friend of mine. We lost touch due to a huge misunderstanding and me not being able to forgive her for the conclusion she jumped to.. But hopefully we’ll be able to reconnect sometime in the near future….

so far I found 4 of my old friends and have been talking to them so as to build back my relationships w/ them

Going to see her this weekend!