My momo
11 months ago
I am her bestfriend and she is mine. It is one of the hardest but most fulfilling roles I could have in life right now. I love her so much.
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jane give away what you lack
I suppose...
14 months ago
I am my mom’s best friend, and my brother’s best friend. I don’t know how to pursue this goal further right now – with new people – so I think I’ll count it accomplished because, really, I’m not doing a half bad job of being a dedicated friend to my mom and brother. For a long time I was also Rob’s best friend, or tried to be. Maybe what I really want to work on is developing new friendships, and if I can find a new best friend of the sort that I had when I was in school, I’ll have a real appreciation for that, but if not, then I’ll be glad for my family and I’ll work on nurturing the newer, less intense sorts of friendships with the hope that one will grow with time into something really steadfast and true.
jane give away what you lack
discussed this goal with my mom yesterday
14 months ago
she says adults rarely look for new friends and it will be hard for me to find friends, because everyone is married, or already has enough friends, or is too busy parenting and working, and so on and so on. no one will want to invest in forming a new friendship at this age, she says.
i have to believe she’s wrong. I have to believe that I’m not the only one whose finding myself at the age of 34 needing to begin new relationships and start a new sort of life.
I hope I can brainstorm some good ways to meet kindred spirits.
jane give away what you lack
give away what you feel you lack
16 months ago
My problem is I crave friendship. I crave attention and love. I feel like I don’t have any friends and I wish I did. Maybe I need to figure out how to be someone’s friend. I need to call people more often to ask how they are. I need to make time to go into town and hang out with my old friends, even if I’m not sure it’ll be fun. I need to start finding ways to be a good friend and make others feel valued and appreciated and cared for.
