be more mature

mature, for me is good in accepting a person, i mean not arguing or protesting all the way they act, especially a small mistake, that could me not that comfortable in that condition. tolerating is a good word to explain these, i guess. and believe it or not, i try it hard to make these happen and i failed in several times. until it made my boyfriend leave me. hahha. sad ending, wasnt it? perhaps, its a big call for me!

When I was 13, I felt mature. When I was 15, I felt mature and realized I wasn’t very mature when I was 13. When I was 17 I realized I wasn’t mature at all when I was 15. When I was 19 I realized how immature I was as a 17 year old. Now I’m older than that and looking back, I was so immature at 19! I think there are different stages of maturity, and a 13 year old is more mature than an 8 year old mentally and emotionally, but is nowhere close to a 23 year old. I can only expect that I’ll continue to grow as a person with every year. In my twenties, I feel like a completely different person than the me of my teens. But I’m not as mature as I’ll be at age 33.

I want to grow up and be more responsible. It’s about time. I’m almost 18.

I wanna be much more mature than now…
oh yeah I am Sweet 16 and coming closer to life
day by Day..
But, when the time comes to choose or decide anything
I want to decide the real right way… for myself.
and I need to b more mature for that!

I wanna be more mature and responsible, constantly helping them rather than always kidding around. Don’t get me wrong, I don’t wanna be so serious I never have fun, but I wanna learn the balance.

Well most people would say I’m pretty mature for my age, I can have good social skills and I don’t act immature alot of the time but I am immature when bad things happen, or things I’m not expecting and I don’t know how to deal with them, so I go in a strop which is kinda immature and I wanna grow out of this and learn a new and mature way to deal with unexpected and/or bad things in my life.

i don’t know where to start, but i’ll keep adding to it.
i want to be mature in all areas of my life, mostly in the way i think about things and deal with them, but also how i relate to others, even the things i have and wear may need to be changed.
someone recently made me realise i’m not as mature as i could be. and even though it hurt to be sort of rejected because of it, it was a big wake up call!
i may be intelligent but my boyfriend made me see life experience is just as important, and i hope in the next few months, when i’m working full time, and when i manage to move out and finally be doing things on my own, people will see a change in me :)

tough ‘cuz part of me doesn’t want to be more mature but i prob need to and it’s prob for the better, but then mature has many definitions right? what does it mean to me or what should it? being more responsible and accoutnable for my decisions, i think i don’t like acting mature, so being able to act appropriately in whatever situation, taking reponsibility for my life, and transferring the financial burden from my parents to me =s

I want to be more mature in the way I judge people…like making better choices of friends and business associates.

And show more mature thinking towards my partner…something that I lack.

I really feel like I need to pat myself on the back for this one. For the most part, I feel like I am becoming a real…adult! A fun one though ;) I think what caused the change is really looking at my circle of friends. Im not saying completly drop your friends…just be aware. Who you hang out with is a reflection of yourself. In my case, my best friend wasnt being responsible with her child and seeing her make some really rotten choices made me realize that I wasnt going to take the same route. I was going to be different. Its been about 6 months or so and I couldnt feel better about the direction my life is headed with my family.
Visualize! Visualize! Visualize!