Overcome jelousy

This is one thing I really dislike about myself. I’m pretty sure it’s keeping me from being truely happy in most of my relationships with people. I know the people around me don’t really understand why I act the way I do, and probably see me as quite childish and frankly, crazy.
To be honest I don’t understand where it comes from either, but if I can get this done I think I’ll be much happier.

I am in love for the first time in a long time and the person I am dating is completely devoted to me and loves me unconditionally. It might be because the last person broke my trust, but I cannot get over the jelousy with this new relationship. I can’t even hear the names of his exes, even if it is not in reference to them. I get pissed when he mentions that someone is attractive. I get nervous when he mentions something about his past, thinking he might mention an ex or a sexual situation he was in. The thoughts come into my head without proviking. I can’t stop thinking about it and we have been dating for nine months. I have been in love before and never had emotions of jelousy. I used to make fun of people who were had jelousy issues. I cannot figure out how to overcome this.

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I have been fighting jelousy since my very first relationship.(And I mean my first little puppy love crush) I am 28 now and have been in many relationships up to this point. I have been married and divorced. I am now in a committed relationship. We are not married but we have two children together. I am soooooo jelous of every single girl he sees. And I’m talking at the store, on the street, on t.v! The poor guy can barely watch t.v. because if there is a girl on there that I think is pretty or has a good body I completely freak out. We don’t even watch movies anymore because if there is a nude seen I flip out on him. I don’t know what my problem is. I have been told that I am attractive my whole life. I have had four children(two are 2 1/2 year old twins. I need to lose a little weight but I am by no means fat. I am not a vain person at all. It’s not that I judge people for how they look. It just kills me to think that my man looks at other girls. Thinks about other girls. And I know it would be unrealistic of me to expect any human not to do that. I am driving him and myself crazy. It is ruining our relationship. I will lose him if I can’t control my jelousy. I am the nuttiest person on this site. help!

Hello, I really need help! I’ve always been a jelous person not really over friends or people having better or nicer things than me or being prettier or slimmer than me, but over men with other girls!! I am seeing someone and recently found out he has also being seeing someone else, i dont want to see him no more but i still want to know things like im really trying to understand why? This sounds really bitchy but this girl is firstly only 18! (i am 25 he is 24) and she is butt ugly!!! Im sorry but she truely is! I am not the only one to have said it many ppl have agreed. My problem is i have heard that he is still seeing her, even tho she knows about me and him. But now im wondering things like why he spent more time with her, and what does she really have that i dont? I know i probably sound like a bitch but i am actually a nice girl and have alot of friends who say im really funny and nice. So what is it? All i keep thinkin, is she better in bed? What does he do at her house? Is he friends with all her family? Does she do more for him? Is she more fun? This is all driving me insane!!!! I could obsess over it all day! How can i stop these thoughts and move on?

my boyfriends ex was my best friend and now i kinda hate her, She left the guy i’m dating, cheated on him for this other older guy.now the older guy left her. Now she comes and visits my boyfriend and they sms eachother and mail eachother, and he gets angry with me if i say i have a problem with it… am i wrong to be jelous, they were engaged…. he keeps on telling me i don’t have anything to worry about, and that she is just a friend, but i hate it…. i just want to know if i’m wrong?

I need help I have never had t a problem with jealousy before but now its bad. My husband friends are all girls I hate it,every time I turn around hes talkin 2 em and I dont know how 2 just let it go.I know he loves me but I dont want him talkin 2 other girls please help….

This is so worth overcoming…
I actually have become friends with the main gal I was jealous over. were pretty tight now and Im so happy I actaully gave her a chance. Ive learned that I can assume things that arnt even true. Till I learned from her myself, I believed she was out to take my bf away, but once we talked, boy was I ever so wrong. So this is so worth doing. Its made me a happier and better person all around!

Well I talked to my bf about being jealous. he said I have nothing to worry about, but today is going better! I see Amanda and I want to laugh in her face because Paul is mine and not hers! But I guess thats still jealousy right…
Im still working really really hard on this! I really want to accomplish this goal.

Im so angry with this outragously beautiful gal that keeps flirting with my boyfriend and keeps giving me the evil eye. Seriously, I wish she’d fall off the earth. It doesnt help that my boyfriend and her, are BEST FRIENDS. WHY!? I know Paul loves me, but this girl is driving me crazy.