repair my marriage

Ive been married for 8years and all of a sudden my wife tells me that im suffercating her she started a new job about 8 1/2 months ago im a stay at home dad i see my wife about 9hours aweek she doesent do anything wene she gets home i let her relaxe i do everthing for her and for the past month she tells me this shes not being herself help me please..!!!!

I liked the e book plus coaching phone support. I screwed up so many times I thought I’d lost, but I finally trained myself to SHOW my husband how much I appreciated him – and he stopped being a jerk. MY action…his reaction.

Over the last few years we have had a lot of problems, but I feel like we have really made tons of progress in the past few months. We are communicating more openly and I am being more truthful with him about everything. He is helping me with the finances and we have a definate plan to get out of debt. That is where most of our problems stemmed from and with that in the open we are doing much better. I think I can now safely mark this as DONE!

We have been working together to get out of debt and handling the money issues. We are on vacation in another week and everything seems pretty relaxed. I hope everything can continue this way.

I feel so guilty, but sometimes I wonder what it would have been like if I never got married. I wonder if we both would have been happier. As you guessed, there have been a lot of problems over the last few weeks. They all revolve around money which seems to be the main cause of divorce these days. I want us to be the exception, but sometimes I just have to wonder.

We have been having date night once a month now. It’s usually nothing special. Just dinner and driving around mostly, but it gives us some time together.

I betrayed my wife for the fourth time. She hasn’t left me yet but Iexpect her to. We’ve been together 6 1/2 years. I seem to go about a year everytime between looking at the internet.
Any advise how to get the habit out of me?

Thanks

Next week we are taking our first week of vacation early this year. Our anniversary is on the 20th and we always try to get away for a few days, but this year we are taking a whole week. It will be nice to get away. I really need some time to unwind after the holidays and my store will be moving when I get back. We’re not doing anything really special, just going to the vacation house and relaxing for the week. I kind of wand o see Cumberland Falls in the winter. I’ve only seen it in the summer before.

My husband and I have only been married for four years but we seem to have had more than our share of bad things happen in our marriage. This past year, we relocated to a smaller city and agreed to put 110% of our effort into each other and stop bringing all of our past garbage into our current marriage. I have to say that we have definitely improved our relationship. Living in a more moderate home and not trying to live beyond our means has helped us with our financial issues and being more open to each other has helped strengthen our marriage. We have been through it all…infidelity, money problems, issues with teenagers…but through it all we have saved each other!

We had a date night tonight. It was actually kind of nice. We went to dinner and then indulged in a little post holiday shopping for ourselves. After that we just drove around for a bit listening to the radio. Simple yet needed. We are really doing great lately. There hasn’t been too much conflict. I just need to learn not to take some things so personally.