one of those things you really can use, it would feel good to aqcuire this skill. True, i have to believe in me first being able to do it, and that’s a start. but a little help wouldn’t hurt. i never thought i could learn, i was told so many times i am hopeless in this i began to believe it myself, and it made my fingers/hands go numb. Especially when i am told that it is not so hard, just feel. Right. Sigh. Need more practice, obviously.
