hit on a cute stranger

may just have begun the process…difficult to believe, but hit on one on the internet…keeping my fingers crossed!!

I used to be very shy. The trick to talking to people you don’t know but are physically attracted to is to (for me anyway) is to realize that ultimately it would be nice just to tell someone that they are attractive not with alter intentions. I know I enjoy getting complimented.

Generally speaking, its not that hard to glance at someone or watch their behavior for just a bit and figure out something they might like to hear.. Some people have really clean, nice cars so a safe bet would be to compliment their ride. Others might look like they are stressed or tired and a random compliment could distract them from whatever it is that’s bugging them just long enough to smile. People with pets are usually really easy to talk to “Oh man! That is the cutest puppy ever!!”

Everyone likes a random compliment. Try not to expect anything more then a “thank you”. Some people get uncomfortable when receiving compliments: Example: You see a really hot girl or guy in the ling at the convince store. You mention something, we will go with their eyes:

“Wow, you have really pretty eyes!”

They respond with a shy “Thanks” pay and walk out to their car. It is a pretty sure guarantee that person is now glancing at themselves in their rear view mirror and smiling..

Either way you slice it, if you spread a positive vibe, it WILL come back around eventually..

Just my $0.02, hope it helps. Good luck.

... oh so many, many times. hope i haven’t ever creeped anybody out! i don’t think that i have, but, well… it could happen. anyway – worth doing – you never know when your fate will walk in that door.

xxx.

I’m shy, too…and afraid of what the reaction would be.

...could actually exist! didn’t work out, but that’s okay…now I know for next time ;)

For me anyway, I am a bit on the shy side.

I don’t have a time limit for this goal, but really why not as long as it’s fun and harmless? I always wait for guys to hit on me, but why wait?