I am looking for a like minded individual: someone that likes the arts, is passionate about music, reading, the visual arts (perhaps another artist?) that is laid back, loves animals, sensitive and caring for all living things, sensual, loves to travel, exercise (walking, hiking, etc.) and is an expat, over 45? Does he exist?
How to find a soulmate
How I did it: A lot of things besides my own efforts were at work for this one but I definitely helped by keeping a positive outlook and making sure I covered all bases in terms of meeting new, interesting people.
Lessons & tips: - Patience, patience, patience. There is no set timeline!
- Be open minded
- Don't compromise on important things but don't sweat the small things
- Go online. Join classes. Participate in activities you would do together with someone.
- Keep a positive attitude. Be likeable, nice, good (yup, all those positive adjectives!)
- If you are online, invest time and effort in creating a good profile for yourself and what your expectations are from a partner
Resources: www.shaadi.com
Shared interests in hiking and travel
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I have already found some kindred souls… so this is a half n half ‘43 things’, but if i could mix all my kindred together, then i would have the perfect soul mate… still hold out that this person does exist, knowing my luck the other side of the bloody world lol
I dont know if soulmate is necessarily the right word. I dont even really care about that I guess. I just wish I could meet someone that wasnt an asshole. My current situation is so miserable and I’ll probably stay that way. What else can I do? I just wish I could fall in love with someone capable of the love I give. I wish I could just connect with him on a level that was special or something along those lines. I wish the person I was with would adore me instead of apperantly hate me. I wish I met a man who didnt laugh when I cried, or didnt hurt me because I say no to something. I wish I even just knew one person who was caring and loved me.
I don’t believe in soulmates, at least for myself I dont. If youre in a position to settle down and you have somebody content with themselves than the situation has the potential to go smoothly. A soulmate to me is just a fantasy, its just an idea of all of the things you wish to find in somebodies character, yet a perfect person doesnt exist. That is unless you dream of being with a bitchy unpredictable person, those are a dime a dozen. Boy o boy, do I sound salty?
I want to meet someone who just “gets it” in the same way I do and who wants to take on the world together.
Steps so far:
Constantly learning more about who I am so I can communicate.
Pursuing a career that make me happy.
Developing interests that I can share.




