Encourage more men to use 43 Things

this really is the coolest networking site i’ve come across and i have reccomended it to many of my male friends but they seem a bit reluctant to use it other than as some sort of stone age p*g contest which i don’t feel is the idea at all…........
i can only say that the quality of advice and help i have had with my “things” has been outstanding and that i hope i’ve been able to at least give a little back.

and I understand that women buy more self-help books . I would just like to see more men take advantage of this cool site . I know it has helped me . Maybe I just search it wrong but 43 things seems to be 3 women to every man .