define my future goals

The big goals in life for me are to be a writer and make a great living at it. Travel the entire planet and metaphorically lick the greatest places on it! Finally, marry the man of my dreams, my soul mate, my best friend, and lover and start a family with him.

I suppose at this point I’m just trying to decide if I need to be more specific in my “plan”...

Finally! It’s been a long time coming. I haven’t known what I’ve wanted out of life, the next 10 years, 5, or even next 6 months for a long time. I’m working on it now.

I have a year plan and I’m enjoying thinking about it and beginning to plan for it! I can’t wait!

I WANT MY LIFE TO CHANGE IN A POSITIVE WAY AND I WANT TO PROVIDE A BEAUTIFUL FUTURE FOR MY FAMILY…I WANT TO GET MARRIED TO MY BOYFRIEND DOMINIC AND WE BOTH BE COMPLETELY FAITHFUL AND LOVING TO EACH OTHER

My Goals (Less then 2yrs.)
Always have something to look forward to
Be a better person
Be debt free (fix my credit after bankruptcy)
Be focused, determined, and make things happen
Be happy
Be more confident
Be more efficient when working
Be more organized
Be more patient
Become successful and financially independent
Buy a car
Buy a house
Create my own website
Control and deal with my past (guilt, anger, and pain)
Don’t buy unnecessary things
Don’t drink unnecessarily
Drink more water
Eat healthier (more fruits, vegetables, less carbs)
Enjoy life and being single
Enjoy the simple things that money can’t buy
Exercise more
Finish what I start
Get a job I love
Fall in love, get married, stay happy, and live happily ever after
Get more sleep
Go a road trip with no destination
Go to church more often
Have no regrets
Keep a journal
Know what I want in life. LIVE INSTEAD OF EXIST
Learn another language
Learn how to drive stick shift
Learn to cook
Learn to sew
Let go of people that are bad for me
Love myself
Make a difference in my life (volunteer…)
Make more money
Manage my time better
Meditate daily
Meet new people
Never stop learning
Organize my life
Pray more
Procrastinate less
Put more attention to the people I care about (family, friends…)
Quit smoking
Read more
Save money
Smile when I’m mad or upset
Spend less time fooling around on the net, instead focusing more on my accomplishments
Start my own business
Stop being so hard on myself
Stop caring about what others think about me
Stop drinking caffeine
Stop procrastinating
Stop worrying/stressing about everything and everyone…that cannot be changed.
Take more pictures
Learn a new dance
Travel
Work because I love to, not because I have to.
Write a book and have it published
Say 5 positive things about me everyday

This is really an ongoing process, but I have the first steps in order.

I have done the first exercise from the second chapter writing about what my life is like in 3 years life. I’m a much calmer person by the sounds of it :o)

that I need to focus on this more. I’ve heard that a friend at work is apparently leaving to go and do what they’ve wanted to do for years. Its got me thinking that I don’t know what the one thing I’d love to do is.

under the subheadings

Spiritual
Physical
Emotional
Mental

Two things have motivated me today.

1. sitting in my parents kitchen having breakfast looking down the garden made me realise I want a house with a kitchen like that
2. it was my grandfather’s funeral this morning and it just reconfirmed that I want to achieve something, I just need to decide what

i want to go to grad school. i am fairly positive that i want this. for what? i do not have that answer yet. and i would like to own a house. i am making very baby steps with these goal, but any progress is good. any answer is better then “i don’t know”.