have an affair with a married man

I need someone inspiring. Alive and well.. pretty!!

I have started an emotional affair with a man. We started out as friends and were flirtatious with each other. It then led to talking in detail about sexual wants and desires. Then about if we turn each other on and doing sexual things while thinking of the other. We are both married and neither of us wants to leave our relationship. My relationship is good and I have a good sex life just missing the passion mainly due to my husband’s personality (I knew this before we married and yes we have tried to work on it – I asked him for phone sex and he said he would study it?!). I am only 24 and this guy is 33. We talk every day for about 2 hours (he owns his own business and can do what he wants) and weekends are for his family. We hung out for a long time last Tues (a first) and things got carried away – A lot of sexual talk and he came to my place for a drink and kissed me and I immediately stopped him. Now we are both confused but still really turned on. I am constantly horny it’s ridiculous and he asks about it b/c I like pushy guys which he knows. I’m not sure if I should stop seeing him or what. I just needed to say be careful if you start having relations like this because your hormones can lead you to get carried away.

I had no idea he was a practicing poligamist. And he was “called” to court me. Yeah, right. I did go out with him, he finally fessed up after we were intimate. Oh well, live and learn. And he didn’t want me to do anything, let’s see how do I put this…oral. Apparently sex is ok but anything beyond missionary is not?

DONT do it…i’ve really done this and this isnt where you want to be…dont do this to yourself… in the end you WILL lose she will win and he wont even care…cuz all he wanted was a little fuN…;) but just as any man wouldnt have the balls to actually come out and telel you all he wants is the sex.

Im having an affair with a married man. I met him when he was rebuilding my shower in my apt. For me it was love at first sight.. For him, im not sure but I know he really liked me. My nieghbor was the first to notice his attraction to me. We didnt get involved right away in fact it took three months. After he was done with my shower I didnt see him a whole lot, but when I did he went completely out of his way to see me. I hadnt seen him for a while and I was kinda started to not think about him so much, until one day when I was leaving my apt there he was in a hazmat suit at the end of the hall waving at me. Well we talked off and on all day and the flirtation got stronger and stronger. He ended up going down to the pool where I was and we spent an hour and a half talking and drinking beer. Then he asked if he could come up to my apt and I said yes.. Thats how the affair started. I asked him why he wanted to be with me and apparently he isnt getting what he needs at home and he really likes me. If I hadnt had that love at first sight attraction to him I would have never got involved with him but I am absolutley in love with this man! We have seen eachother a few times since the affair started in june, and the sex is awesome! Something straight out of playboy lol, but Im finding it harder and harder to let him go. I keep telling myself that its just sex right now but thats not all I want. So im not sure if it was worth getting involved with him because now I afraid im going to get my heart broken

So, definitely didn’t set out to be in that position and the only reason this one was worth it was because it was one of the few successful relationships that comes of it.

If he hadn’t ended up getting divorced eventually it would have been SO not worth the heartache.

Oh my gosh though, he’s the hottest man in the world and we’re so in love. Good luck to whoever gets stuck in this position.

I’m having an affair with a married man…he’s only married legally though…there are no more feelings there for her and he’s in the process of divorcing. He’s the best guy I’ve ever been with, and even though I know he’s technically taken, the relationship feels more real than any other one I’ve been in with single men.

both of us are married. we have each been with our spouses for a decade or longer. I adore my husband and have amazing sex. I am just plain ol greedy. and well for him my Lust, his wife has no sex drive. so it is mutually beneficial. we’ve worked together at the same company for 3+ years and only recently took the flirtations to the fun level. we both have no intention of leaving our spouses for we do love them. but we enjoy the illicitness and the sex is amazing. being a practicing hedonist it suits my nature. i have always had other women around for me to express my greed to. this is the first man, not my husband that he didnt know of. we at times have shared others with approval. I think this time i wanted something secret. and I found the one to be secretive with.

sorry this is kinda long

Right now I am having an affair with a married man, C, for almost a year. I met him a couple of months after I left my husband. C and I started out just chatting at the bar. I didn’t even know he was married until the third time I saw him. I took my phone number back.

A few days later I saw him in the Walmart parking lot with is wife. She was upset with him and belittled him in the worst way in public. I didn’t hear the first part of what she said but I did hear her say “You and your useless dick can do whatever you want”.

When I saw him next at the bar, I asked what was that about. It was his birthday that day and he was trying to get some on his birthday from her and she pretty much laughed in his face. They haven’t had sex in over a year.

He hurt his back right before he met me he’s not a 100% “down there”. He told her about and she really didn’t care. And she’s a nurse!

I felt so bad. He was so hurt. I told him to follow me outside. I pushed him against the wall and started kissing him. He kissed me back. We didn’t even try to have sex for a couple of months. It started out him talking to me and me really listening to him.

He’s still not 100% “down there” but what we want most from each other is just someone who will listen. We care deeply for each other. But I’m not looking for him to leave her. I’ve never said those words to him. He needs to make that decision on his own.

I’ve seen them around a few times after that and each instance she is just mean. And what’s worse now is that his adult daughter is starting to treat her husband the same way.

He’s so sad most of the time. But he needs to figure things out for himself. I’m almost tempted to break up with him so he can do it on his own. But I don’t think he’s ready yet.

I love him and he loves me, but sometimes that’s not enough. As mean as she is, he feels his marriage is an obligation he can’t get out of.

I’m just glad i can be there for him. And it’s not all about sex. We rarely have sex. We mostly talk, cuddle and just be there for each other.

I’m having an affair with a married man with 3 small children (5,3,1). He’s totally abandoned his wife and kids to spend all his time with me. I am 19 and can’t find anyone other than a married man.