have sex in a cemetery

but worth doing!

always appearing at the top right of my page and find it disturbing each time. Not because its not true or because it wasn’t a good time, but on the face is perhaps more unseemly than it actually was.

1. I was very young
2. It was a long time ago
3. We didn’t seek out the cemetary – it was convenient
4. We didn’t get out of the car
5. Death is a part of life; sex is a part of life
6. At least we left the campus meditation chapel when our intentions became apparent

The original entry was more inspired by the hazards one is constantly presented with on the site. You read a heading, it strikes your fancy on some unanalyzed level, and you give the person a cheer. Same sort of thing with some of the goals. One can declare “I’ve done that,” without the item first being declared as a goal. It is an invitation to self-disclosure, which in total is a positive thing.

As I’ve continually felt nagged by seeing my own disclosure so prominently, I’ve been tempted many times to either explain myself or delete it. Deletion seemed the best option, until the potential inherent in disclosure became more apparent. The better course, for me, when I can bear that on the top-right of my page no longer is more self-disclosure, moving that heading down by notches and eventually off the page.

I remain happy to click uncritically, be thoughtful where required, and not be so worried about letting folks see me as I am.

heh…

First girlfriend. She’s done everything else since then, but I’ve got this one down.