Conversations are an essential part in socializing, be it with family, friends, colleagues or a significant other. I have been wanting to improve my communication skills long time ago, but it was just a passing thought! Now, I want to seriously work on it. I started to contact a Toastmasters in town, thanks to the 43 member who suggested it! I think it’s a good idea. Some say Toastmasters not only improve public speaking skills but also, it helps to show support to others which is an important thing to know how to do when dealing with others!
I also read a book about conversation starters, I’d think of getting one and try to use it in my daily life. It’s so fun to be able to share interesting things about life with genuine people! I noticed that the more I do it, the more I want to meet more people!
It feels like a hobby! when we start learning and then enjoy skiing, for example, we just can’t wait for the next time we go skiing! 3 weeks ago
Vicki
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How I did it: I joined a Toastmaster's club and not only learned to be a better conversationalist but a better public speaker! Toastmaster's is an international organization so there is probably one near you and it is very affordable! Read how I did it… 2 years ago
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How I did it: Becoming a better conversationalist basically involves being very embarassed for a while. I'd keep trying to have good conversations with people, and slowly I became less and less awkward. You have to be willing to go forth and risk feeling stupid in social settings. It seems unfair that some people are better at talking than others, but it's a growing experience. Read how I did it… 2 years ago
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Changing one word makes a world of difference! “Become a great conversationalist” was one of my stated goals for a long time. Less than 10 other people were with me. I thought that was strange.
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Finally, I saw the “very similar” suggestion. Switching to Become a Better Conversationalist resulted in finding hundreds of others who are interested in having great conversations.
Additional benefits include (1) less pressure! (2) more accountability. Getting better can be measured while being great is subjective. 7 months ago
