make him happy

I;ve been dating this guy for about 6 months now. my parents hate him, but they think i’m on drugs and lost my virginity this summer, so what do they know???? I want nothing more than to make him happy. anywhere he wants to go, i will. I love him, and he is everything to me

I love him SO SO SO much. We dated for almost 2 years the 2 worst possible years, it started when I was 17 I was changing so much. It was so great in the beginning everything went completely smooth the whole year it did. four months ago i started getting that whatever it takes to make me happy attitude. i didnt realize it at the time, last month he got fed up with it, he told me he was tired of it, that he still had feelings for me but that he didnt think it was going to work. that stopped me short, i stayed in my dorm room for a week just crying. needless to say it was an eye opening week for me, i learned about all the things that i was doing wrong, i know exaclty what it was, i got to cocky in that hes mine i want him forever way, but anyway long story short i was happy so i forgot all about making him happy. I was 17 and changing so much that i didnt know what i wanted anyway. i have realized that now, problem is that he isnt wanting to give me that chance to show him the way i have changed the things i have learned, the stuff i have realized and taken care of, in those 2 years that boy became my life, when he left me i havent really lived since, i cry all the time, wish i could take it all back. it feels like this dream that i am having and i keep thinking that i will wake up from it, i have been able to talk him into considering and thinking about giving me another chance, thats all i can ask of him, i screwed up royally is there anyone out there that can give me advice on how to approach him, to show him that i am sincere in my changes, that i am hopelessy in love with him. He knows i love him, does anyone have and ideas that could cement that into fact even harder, HELP PLEASE

The only one who can make that man happy is himself. So I leave it to him.

I met this guy threw my [ ex ] best friend. They used to go out but she cheated on him nine times. Hes been hurt alot but so have I. I dont know how this is going to work out because we’ve both been hurt but i really wanna make him happy im trying to do my best to do everything right and to do everything he askes with out compromising myself and or my beliefs. I still feel as if im doing something wrong or im not making his happy [enough]. I wanna do everything right so i dont hurt him and i want him to be so happy with me that he never has to go looking for love any where else. I whant him to love me as much as i love him. I whant him to never break my heart. And if he dont break mine i wont break his.

Yep It’s been 8 years almost and after 3 and i did say 3 kids the “spark” is lost but not forgotten. I am in need of a little help to catch that attention again. Hope this does really work. You could be saving a marraige.

my relationship has been going on for a very long time, and we have been having some serious problems lately, problems that began as they where caused by him, and yes i had my fair share of making it worse… yet when he done wrong he done nothing to see he was wrong, or to try and fix things between us, but when i done it, he looked at it as if the world came to an end, and still, till today, 4 months later is still holding it against me and wont get over it.

my problem is that i still try and do my best for him, and he plays with my feelings, leads me on and gets me excited only to be let down again. every time i try talk about the relationship, he gets angry with me and then wants to break up with me, so instead of getting him worked up i rather keep my feelings botteled up inside to do my best to save the relationship…

Why is it that girls always wanna help men be happy? Do they ever try to do the same for you? I have a man in my life that i love more than anything, but no matter what i say or do its not generally right. The more I look at what i am doing for him the more i find my self asking my self (well he don’t do shit like that 4 me)so why?? I go out of my way to give him head and he’s flipping through the channels looking for other girls to look at!!!! you know i don’t mined once and awhile but I would like to feel hot to. does any one out there have the same issues??

He is older than me… and he doesn’t know i like him. I think he would be freaked out if i told him. Its not just a crush, i envy myself when i think of when i’m with him. He doesn’t realise he has saved my life and he doesn’t accept thanks for anything. I wonder if he ever thinks about me, i doubt it, but it would make me beyond happy. I think i might annoy him.. so sometimes i stay away from him. I just want him to be happy and i would do anything, including never seeing him again, if it would make him happy.

Be aloof, mysterious, impossible to pin down. Get up on your pedestal. Be a goddess. Then, you will make him happy.

Every woman I say this too, it’s not out of strategy. It’s biological. I love nothing more than to give love unconditionally. But, I think when I have done; I have given the man the vibe that I am competing with his affections for me or trying to teach him how to be a good boyfriend.

So, in the interests of trying to meet men halfway on their own ground, I step back a little bit and let them keep their self esteem by being better at being a boyfriend than I am at being a girlfriend. I want to be the girl in the relationship and there I shall camp. It’s hard, but I do it because I have the best possible intentions at heart.

I can say that i know i love him with all my heart. I just tend to upset him 90% of the time. He says its my stupidity and maybe it is. I do know that i would do anything to make this work. I have lost his trust and its difficult to see this. I look at him often and hate myself for doing this to him. How i wish i could go back and change what i have done. i am doing things diffirently, but of course he doesnt see it. I see that im not alone out there. i believe trying your best in making him happy is worth it. and i will die trying if necessary.