be more secure

and you will!

Generally, I don’t care to go places where there are poeple that I don’t get along with. I live in an itty-bitty town, and you run into people everywhere. This past weekend, a friend and I went out, which was LNOG overdue for both of us. We went to this little place downtown, and of course half the poeple in townw e don’t like or don’t liek us were there. I was pretty scared going into it..mostly because I tend to feel really insecure, but we held our heads up high, and walked in like we owned the place. We had a blast!! At first, my security was just acting..but the longer we stayed, I realized that I am NOT a product of the other people arund me, and was secure in myself and had a fantastic time!!

i was more secure and could find the trust that was lost.

I have a loving boyfriend, but im so insecure, and jealous all the time! plus i have a major trust issue so i t all kinda ties in together, it is so hard, i feel like im killing myself emotionally, it is my fault im like this and i dont know how to stop. help me please.

i have a jealousy problem, which kinda ties in with being insecure. i just cant get over this either. its sooo hard not to think about what my ex is doing and who he is with, even if i dont care about him anymore. its wierd, but i cant help it. i need help

I stayed away from him, and it worked eventually. I don’t really think of him anymore. But that’s not why I’m secure. I stopped caring about the girls he was talking to way before I stopped caring about him. Well, I still care about him, but not much. Anyways, I’m way more secure in every aspect. I like myself more & I’m not worried about whether I’m “good enough” or pretty enough or smart enough, etc…. : ]

I am now happy with myself. I could be sitting here naked and be perfectly happy (maybe I am…. oo-la-la)

I really need to learn how to stop being jealous. It’s mainly when it comes to a certain guy, and he talks to other girls, and I get REALLY jealous. I don’t like being this way, but I don’t know how not to. I thought maybe if I stayed away from him for a while that would help, but I don’t think it did… I’m not sure how to stop being jealous, but I think that it might work if I really learn to love myself….