get over my boyfriend

...He was my first boyfriend, for 3 years… I loved him with everything in me… it sucked…so bad when we broke up I went into severe depression, we were always with each other- Go to school together, come home together, stay until 10 for him to go home until the next morning to repeat the process. It has been at least a month or so and it’s… Sucky. It’s difficult because he changed because of the manipulative people around him. My feelings for him are still strong but he keeps hurting me without knowing it. I need to get over him but I don’t want to… I love him still, a lot. But things don’t work out and people change…it’s so sad. If we ever would get back together it wouldn’t be the same and possibly be even worse than when we were together.
I just think he was looking for an excuse all along to break up but…oh well. I loved him. I’m trying to take my time, not looking for a rebound and it’s hard because I just see him and smell him. It sucks. I need to get over him.

my boyfriend and I broke up after 5 years. stupid cheater. ofcourse I still have feelings for him, but I want to get over him and forget about him and move on with my life. because I just can’t be hurt by him anymore, it’ll be too much.

when we broke off it felt like my world had come 2 n end..everybody feels so i know,,,but the truth was that its over,,n i had 2 digest it,,but it ant easy,,,take ur time in doing it,,1st few weeks u just wanna listen 2 sad songs o love songs n miss him like crazy,,n even cry yea thats all allowed,,then u start watching some love stories,,n not miss him but see how happy couples really r,, n that how boyfriends should b,,n all those things that ur guy wasnt,,think of the times he 4got ur b’day anniversary,,kept u waiting,,din keep his promis,,n make a list of all bad things u can think of,,n read it everytime u think about him o u wanna 4get about everything n just pick up that cell of urs n call him,,talk 2 ur friends..call em often,,meet up wid em,, n have a bitch about ur bf session wid em,,m sure they’ll have a lot 2 bitch about him,,then finally u’r free,,wowee,,,hasnt it clicked yet..!!gal u can go out flirting,,there r a lotta cute fishes in the sea,,the best way 2 get over that looser is to find sum1 new,,, n ur life would b much more exciting that it was with him,,believe me,,worth a try,,
wish u luck!!

he was the best i ever had, sweet,caring, loving. but, something between us just, didnt work anymore. i miss him, but i need to get over him, if you have any help for me, please, tell me what i can do.

see me and my ex went out for 7 months then he did somthing really uncool and had his friend call and tell me he wanted to end things,he called me back to see how i was coping with it after his friend hung up i told him i was devistated and after a few minutes he said to act like it never happend like he never called to brake up with me and then we hung up i called him back later and he kept asking me questions about wat would happen if we broke up and if we could still be friends i told him i didnt know and that most likly we could but it would take me a few weeks to be his friend he said that was fine and i asked him if he would tell me the truth about somthing he said yes, so iasked him if he still wanted to brake up with me he said kinda and his reasoning for everything was that he need a brake so he could clear his head!

My boyfriend makes me feel deficit & insecure and I don’t know how to beat this feeling.

2 months ago my boyfriend told me he didn’t know if he was in love with me. We dated for 1 and 1/2 years and were great friends for years before that. I guess I do not understand what happened. We didn’t fight, we got along great! Laughed all of the time. I looked back at our relationship and I never took him for granted. I was the BEST I have ever been in a relationship. I now find myself sad and hollow inside. I just want to get over him and move on. I know I am worth more than being with someone who does not know if they love me. One day I will be healed from this!

Hi, wish our situation wasnt so complicated. I actually broke up with him but I need to stick with it this time. Its always all about him. When i feel as though I am missing him, he can go by with seeing me only twice a week. I have an eight year old as so does he. We went from living together to not living together as of a year ago. He constantly has his own issues. Before it was not coming home now he doesnt have to. NOw he just doesnt bother to call. and of course that always happens when he goes out with the boys … frig knows what they get up to. Hes twenty eight.. needs to grow up.. and I need a guy who is looking for more of a committment. I have a child and need more stability from a partner. Anyhow.. heres to hoping that I can get over him…. too many break ups and excuses. I need to do my own thing and thats college right now. I need to remember this!!!! sometimes he makes me feel like a booty call. Hes not a bad person… I think we just need different things.

well i had been together with my boyfriend for 5 months which is pretty good since im only in eight grade but my boyfriend meant everything to me and i truley believed i loved him and he would always just go a couple days and then call me and act as if nothing was wrong and he just didnt care about me at all but then the next week he’d be like oh i love you so much and it just got so confusing and then finally i got mad at him and he told me that he thought we should break up until he got his head straight :( i mean he really was sweet and kind at times but i dont understand how he can be so loving then so mean the next….