Learn the art of flirting

Not much entries here, I hoped to get some insight on how to flirt. I blev in the sayin ‘be yourself’ and all I know is I aint going on truck loads of dates so sumins gota happen.

I have come out of my shell somewhat. Im easily discouraged for example. I listen to the guy more than talk myself, I tend to make them laugh, I am friendly, I dress okay, I fix my hair and yet nada.

I even took Chers advice from clueless, show some skin, bring attention to my mouth (In a classy way) and nada. The guys are either shallow hals or not my type. I dont know?

My self talk has improved but the more theres no interest the more my old self talk returns. I’m no good, too big, not as pretty, too old yada yada yada.

note to self

I read this guide and it seems to make sense. My main problems are eye contact (I used to have impaired hearing and am finding it hard to get out of the habit of lip reading) and thinking of interesting things to say. I’m pretty shy, too.

Lastnight I fulfilled more than my “5 eye contacts”. I actually did 7. hehe

Going to SF this weekend. I promised my girlfriends that I will make eye contact with 5 men and keep eye contact until he looks away first.