"Not the usual vetting process"
How I did it: I think I'm safe in saying most people do not find their faith community by watching the evening news. Especially when it's on the news because a staffer has been arrested for soliciting sex with a minor online . . . Yeah, I know, but this is how it happened.
I was watching the news in NC and
noticed that the church is in Winter Park, FL. Hey, isn't that close to
where I live? And for some reason, I knew that this was it. This is my new faith community. The timing was perfect of course, I had been looking for months with no viable prospects.
When starting my church search I first had to determine what it was I needed in a church. Although I made no actual list of what I desired, I knew in my mind what I thought would be best for me at this time.
I knew the actual building itself needed to have character in it's architectural design. I love being in a sanctuary, and so having one that has a very sacred feel is important to me.
My former faith community, Trinity United Methodist in Huntsville, AL www.trinityhsv.org, really spoiled me with the fine arts program, and this is something I also desired as well. I miss Trinity dearly. I'm so grateful for all the spiritual disciplines I learned there (thanks Patty Lowe!), and the healing that occured from being in that community. Trinity will always be a sanctuary for me as well as my new community, First United Winter Park.
Worship through fine arts is something else I desired in a faith community. Beautiful music, dance, ensembles, as well as other art forms really nourishes me. I really appreciate communities that value spiritual expresssion through the arts, and feel it's vital, really to spiritual and individual development.
Because I am no longer in social work I wanted a community that is actively involved in outreach programs.
And, of course, I want a community that values issues that I care about, like health and wellness, social equality, and the environment, while having an ecumenical and international worldview.
I started first by researching online. There is so much you can tell about a faith community simply by looking at the website. If there is no website, that's your first clue.
After narrowing down a few congregations from online research I decided to visit. I visited one church that did not do it for me at all. The vibe was just WRONG. Felt like I was watching a show. I found it interesting that I got a survey in the mail later asking me if I was greeted, if parking was accessible, and if I would come again. Church marketing at its best. I completed the survey, told them I would not return again, and sent it back in the SASE.
Because that was like the best hope for me from online research I had just given up on finding a place. I knew that I would find somewhere, just frustrated it was not happening when I wanted it to. And this is when I saw the evening news. And when I saw the church website www.fumcwp.org, I knew in my heart this is the place. And upon visiting, my thoughts were confirmed. No need to look further. This community has everything I have been looking for!
Sep 14, 2008, 05:17PM PDT
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