be romanced

I know romance isn’t candles, music and rose petals all of the time. It is being there for eachother no matter what, helping eachother accomplish goals, growing personally and together. It is the little things everyday that are romance. But, I would still like to be romanced by my man. He should think I am worth the trouble. He is!

Why? I am an incurable romantic who has never been romanced. I am a woman. That should explain a lot! Romance takes effort, planning, intention, time, forethought,a lot of different things depending on who you are. To me candles, quality time, being treated like the most special one, the only one. I am old fashioned that way, Candlelight dinner, flowers, music, room service, a long walk.. anyway.

I’M NOT ASKING FOR SOMEONE TO BRING DOWN THE STARS AND THE MOON FROM THE SKY. I’M ASKING TO BE ROMANCED. TO REALLY MEAN AND FEEL WHAT THEY SAY. TO MAKE SMALL GESTURES THAT MEAN ALOT. IT’S NOT LIKE I WANT FLOWERS AND CHOCOLATES, I WANT SMALL NOTES NOT EVEN LOVE LETTERS AND HOW ABOUT DEDICATING ME A SONG (SOMETHING MEANINGFUL). I DON’T WANT HIS MONEY, FOR ME IT’S ALWAYS 50 50. WHY IS IT SO DIFFICULT? I ASK MYSELF EVERYDAY. I GUESS I’LL NEVER GET AN ANSWER. BUT I NEVER LOSE HOPE THAT SOMEONE ONE DAY WILL ROMANCE ME LIKE I WANT TO. :o)