How to design my perfect Tattoo and get it done
How I did it: I spent a few months thinking about what exactly I wanted (a symbol, a harp, only black and no color, etc.). Then I spent a few months looking into tattoos like it, and symbols like what I wanted. Then I spent 6 months simply not doing it. Purposefully avoiding it. This is important! If you still are in love with your design and tattoo after 6 months, then it's probably a tattoo you won't regret later in life. Then I finally said, "Enough is enough! It's time to do it!" And went and got it with a friend there for support. :)
Lessons & tips: 1) Do research on the design of it.
2) Don't do it on impulse. Wait the 6 months.
3) Spent a significant amount of time deciding on what to get.
Resources: The internet. My personal beliefs.

