I’m a high school freshman and currently are one of the few people who have never kissed a girl. Since I was new, so far I’ve lied to people and told them that I have had one. I guess I’m just afraid to talk to girls. My mind says yes, but my body says no. There’s a girl I like, but after 3 weeks of meeting, I haven’t said a single thing to her even though I’ve had many chances to. We don’t know anything about each other, but I wish I could just talk to her. Does anyone have any advice?
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