Stop complaining so much

i never used to complain at all. i would just go with the flow and whatever would happen would happen!
but for the past couple months i’ve been hanging out with new people at rowing and stuff, and they complain a lot! for everything. its not like they just say ‘oh its cold’ and then go on and talk about something else…its like on and on and on.
and some of it has rubbed off on me! and i’ve turned into this big complainer when thats not who i am! I DONT CARE! hehe
so i’m gunna try to stop complaining so much, because its not an attractive look on me
:)

I guess if I learn to be more i won’t complain so much.

It’s part of what makes me Mark. I’m trying to do it less. It’s hard for me but I am trying.

it’s not easy for me though. i guess i do more than i realize.

more than i should from people. i don’t complain all the time but i do when i feel i’m being ignored, not considered or forgotten about.

Let’s see… I’m pretty sure I always complain about the same things. So whatever those things are, I have to change them.
First I’ll just have to find out what those returning complaints are.

I’ve been going through a lot lately and I have realized that complaining gets me nowhere and nobody wants to hear it! I am doing very awesome at this goal and I consider it done. :)

I started taking Zoloft for my anger issues and control problems. It practically lobotomized me. I just went off it (after 3 months on) and can feel some of my old ways coming back. But I’m determined to keep up with not complaining since I’ve learned (the hard way) that it pushes away the ppl I care most about.

Book to recommend: The Power of Now- by Eckhart Tolle
He has good ideas about how to stop.

I don’t know though. I do it so much that I don’t even realize I’m doing it!! The last time I complained was probably yesterday and that was about how mean my husband was being. LOL I have been doing much better but I need to be more conscious of it so that I can work on it more.