be a nicer person

I was really nice to them instead of getting aggravated that they call 900 times a day. They’re just trying to pay their bills too!!

I think there are many different types of intelligence in the world. E.g. there’s academic intelligence (aka being a smarty-pants), and then there is social intelligence (that is being a nice person). Both of which are learnable.
For the latter, I would give myself at the moment a good B-. I can be the kindest and most altruistic person on the planet and then again… not. At times out of spite, at times out of (social) ignorance. But, as we all now, ignorance is not an excuse (nor is spite, actually). And thus I am determined to learn to be a better person for the sake of myself and for the people who are dear to me.
But then again, Charlie Brooker’s not that nice (I think) and he seems to have a pretty solid fan club. So maybe I should just develop my own signature unniceness?

You see the character in films who is known for how lovely she is to everyone, always willing to help, never grouchy and always genuine. I want that to be me. I want to be known for being nice. I want to be the one that people are always praising and never upset anyone. It sounds very vague and almost pathetic to just want to please but I genuinely want that to be me.

This is one of the things I really should do ‘coz everywhere,but everywhere I go,peoe are just like “Is she a human?” or “Dude,stay away.She might throw on a bitch-fit!”.It’s really awful how people look at me and mock.And my attitude stinks!I’m an OX so typically,I have a very bad temper.A mean person,yes I am.I don’t wanna lie,I wanna change.I always fight w/ my siblings and parents,they’re all annoying!

I want to do this. I want people to say “yeah, she’s a nice girl” because I really am, not because I can fake it well. I’ve started by being excessively polite and complimentary online when I’m playing WoW because people are more likely to be nice back, and then the game is much more fun.

I will be nice in real life to people to, it’s just harder sometimes!

im usually quite nice… but when i want to be mean, im such a cunt!

I would like to be a better person and do everything I say I am going to do.

I’m not a nice person just when I’m upset about things I get a bit bitter and it usually gets taken out on the people I love. For the past week I’ve really been trying to bite my tongue and its amazing how fast the bitterness passes and I feel ok again. It also helps in terms of relationships cause where previously there were topics I wasn’t happy discussing I now know that if I take my time over them then I will be able to get through it without upsetting anyone. A good example is that Robbies dad likes to bate me with things he knows will upset me, I call it a form of bullying because there is no gain out of it but where as before I would moan to Robbie about it I just take a few mins time out and forget about it. Result, on the down side where as his dad has been annoying me for two years and I’m getting over it he has started ticking Robbie off so I have to hold my tongue for his sake to. Sucks

i really should

I wish that I was a nicer person. I’m more gruff with my family than with other people. But I have been known to lash out at stangers. Not sure how to change, but I’m gonna work on it.