Replace my tendency to be snide with a tendency to sincerely compliment people

of being rude to people. It’s not a matter of not saying ‘please’ and ‘thank you’...it’s the fact that rather than be kind and loving to those around me, I’m far more likely to say something degrading (in what I pass off as a comical way). I have devised a number of defenses for this behavior, some of which are very reasonable…but in the end, I’m simply being harmful to others, and to my own perspective on the world. I’d like to see myself change this, and learn to be a more positive (and outwardly so) individual. :D