stop saying I'm sorry

I need to stop saying srry for the simple fact that i am apologizing for something that is not my fault i just don’t want the fighting.

I even somehow got my kids doing it. Grrr… I am working on this right now.

I say it all the time for no reason, I even say it to my boyfriend. Its like my shield and I need to drop it already.

Me and my mom have been in a lot of fights, and the most recent one ended in me moving 4 hours away. Now she is constantly making me feel bad for my dicision, and I don’t want to say I’m sorry anymore. I’m happy where I’m at and I need to not be so dependant on her.

I say sorry way to much. Like I will say in 3 times in a 15 minute conversation. It drives my friend nuts. She always tells me to not say it all the time otherwise it won’t mean as much when I really should be sorry.

“Wow you’re so much taller then me”
“Sorry!”

haha WHY? Why did I feel the need to apologize? Oh geeez.

I’m horrible for this!!
I bump into someone “Oh sorry!”
Trying to fish out my wallet from my purse “Sorry, It’ll just be a second”

Geez! Enough is enough! Not everything can be my fault!

Instead of blurting out unnecessary ‘sorries’ I’m going to try to say “I apologise” if there is actually something I need to apologise for. I think the problem with me is that saying sorry is so automatic for me.

I figure if I actually have done something wrong then I should apologise for it sincerely. If I haven’t, I’m less likely to blurt out “I apologise” than “I’m sorry” for no reason, which is why I’m switching (where reasonable) to “I apologise”.

I’m not sorry dammit.

because sometimes, it’s
not
my
fault.