tell my crush how i feel

I want to tell my crush but I just don’t want to get rejected.

one of the most scariest things i’ve ever done!!! lol but it was well worth it. That may be the hardest part, to let someone know how you really feel about them inside. And in all actuality, it’s so refreshing how there is nothing to “hide” or keep inside to yourself anymore. I think the hardest part was the vulnerability factor. I mean, there’s no way to clean up that spilled glass of water. =] (Not that I would want to!)
life is too short to worry. So live to the fullest, love freely, and laugh at the one’s that didn’t make it. No regrets =]

that’s plenty said already.

so my crush?
he’s my best friends brother. my fear is that i finally tell him my feelings and then it becomes completley awkward between us. all my friends say he likes me . . and i’m pretty sure he does..i guess i am just afraid of rejection.
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This guy and i have been friends for 8 years now. over the last three years i have been developing a crush on him. we always have such interesting convos and we have so much fun together. the other day he asked me if there was anything going on between us and i said no….i made a mistake…what do i do? maybe he is reading this (hopefully), but if not…what do i do?

i told my crush how i feel about him…. and now he knows were not going out it just made things really wierd between us and he doesn’t like to talk to me now except on email…. but i figured he wouldn’t like me because hes like a skater and well hes an ass hole now i know

This is the best advice that I have ever got about a crush or the person that I love. Thank you 43 things for helping me, and if anyone else needs help just let me know.

Ahw man, if I hadn’t had six free cosmos in my system, I would’ve never have known that he has a crush on me too :D

Man, I’ve been cheesing all week!

Course, he has a girl, and a fan club, which is a bummer, but I can’t really expect anything to come from swooning over this kid. It is only a crush.

I didn’t get what I was hoping for…but I think it was still worth it. He told me he just didn’t feel the same. For a long time afterwards I was so upset…but then I relized that yeah it was still worth it. The feeling was amazing. I did something I was afraid of..and I learned from it.

...of telling guys I had a crush on them long after the crush is gone. Like, years and years afterwards. After college, I met up with a guy I knew in high school and had dinner. I think I was even married at the time. It was totally harmless…I told him I had a crush on him in high school. He blushed and confessed to having a crush on me too. There was some mutual flattery going on and that’s that. I don’t think I’ve even spoken to him since that day.

I did the same thing with a guy I knew my freshman year in college. We got back in touch with each other years later, and I confessed my crush. Again, he confessed that he too had a crush on me. Yay…I’m crush-able. Again, it was totally harmless. We lost touch for years, and a few months ago he found my blog and sent me a note. I was glad to hear from him. He’s now happily married with a very cute little boy.

I don’t think I would do this with anyone unless I either (a) was genuinely interested in pursuing something with him or (b) knew that it would be totally harmless and nothing more than a compliment on my part.

Ah, crushes are the best. They feel so nice and are so risk-free.