be less critical of myself, and in turn be less critical of others because i dont care anymore.

The past days at the beach I was so critical of other people…I guess not everybody has perfect beach manners (do not play music out loud! do not play ball between people who have nothing to do with your soccer game!!).

In order to be more comfortable around others you have to be comfortable with your self. That means being less critical, and overthinking everything you do before you do it. I means accepting the freckles you have on the bridge of you nose, and accepting your very muscular calfs. The sooner you do this the sooner you can stop worrying about not only your flaws but the flaws of other people too.