KELWANTINGMORE is trying to stay positive....
This goal is going great for me and my fiance!
We have started fresh! We are getting along great and having great sex and doing special things for each other….couldn’t be going any better!
How I did it: My boyfriend and I started seeing a couple's counselor several months ago. I thought we needed to work on our communication, which we did, but we needed more than that. We had many conversations about our compatibility, both wanting to be with the other person forever, but not knowing if it was feasible. We strengthened our commitment to each other, as well as learned how to compromise so that we would both be happy. We're now confident that this is forever.
Lessons & tips: If you have those compatibility conversations, and it's like trying to put a square peg into a round hole, it's okay. Put your own happiness first, and if both of you do that, and you can compromise in a way that makes both of you happy, then you're compatible. If you can't compromise in a way that makes you both happy, it's okay. Breaking up is perfectly natural. Help each other through that process.
Resources: Couples counseling! It may sound cheesy, especially to men, but it works wonders. It doesn't mean your relationship is horrible, it just means that there are things you can improve in order to be incredibly happy with the other person.
KELWANTINGMORE is trying to stay positive....
This goal is going great for me and my fiance!
We have started fresh! We are getting along great and having great sex and doing special things for each other….couldn’t be going any better!
KELWANTINGMORE is trying to stay positive....
It’s not like my relationship sucks or anything, just could use some improvement. There are things we both need to work on. I’m ready to work on it! I don’t want to be right, I want to be happy. Big difference. I want to make my man happy. I want to look back a year from now and laugh in the face of today’s problems!! :)
beautifulblonde777 volunteering and getting closer to my goals
my relationships with my family, boyfriend, and community are improving. I’m happy about that.
KELWANTINGMORE is trying to stay positive....
My fiance and I have not been getting along lately. We both have bad habits that we need to work on. I have realized that I need to be more grateful for my fiance and everything he does for me. He loves me, he is always there for me, and he always wants me to be happy more than anything else. I think Love can be so simple, if everyone didnt always make it so complicated.
MMLB is trying to look on the bright side of life
that sums up how I feel right now. We have been together with my boyfriend for 2,5 years, and while I do love him I feel that he does not understand me more and more often…
jennic120 is looking for a babysitter
Things are pretty good on a day to day, but there are things that we need to work out. He suggested counseling, but now has changed his mind because things are going better and he thinks counseling would just make us angry at eachother. I’m not sure if that’s right or not, but sometimes I feel like I’m the only one making an effort. He has made some changes, so I can’t say he hasn’t done anything. I guess only time will tell if I can get past the past without professional help.
- we went on holiday together for 9 days
- I bought him a gift twice, while it was not his birthday or something
- we are more open to each other
- and my other goals are also almost reached!!!
sparkleman is moving
That seems to incorporate all my psychodynamic beliefs. Reading it right now – I think it has a lot to offer.
sparkleman is moving
... I really want to say on here :-) A reminder to myself to act differently and be more empathic.