I am 45 educated (M.A) cultured. Want a good mental accompany from lady/girl of any age. 3 years ago

I’ve written 5, this being the 6th entries about this goal….

Yet If I am closer or close to reaching this goal I’m totally unaware of it.

So I will not update this until something has happened that will put me closer to this goal.

Bitching about it and worrying about it does not conclude getting closer to achieving this goal.

So when I go on a date,get a number,anything that puts me closer, thats when I’ll update.

wish me luck :-D 4 years ago

Only now does it bother me that I am still alone.

I feel like I’m way to old to have not had a boyfriend and it’s really not making sense to me. 4 years ago

Brittany said something really profound to me yesterday:

you lose someone and you never understand why until   you meet that next person who you like so much more.

Thats exactly what I hope will happen. And whoever that man is I’ll realize that hes prefect for me, in reality, not just in my head.

I’ve learned to much to keep doing the same stupid things that don’t work.

I just wish I could meet someone I like soon, just so I can know the possiblity is there and its real.

I just need some hope I can see, the blind faith is there but I need more than that. 4 years ago

So I set a goal to learn to drive.

I passed the test, got my permit, set up a driving lesson with SEARS and since then, I’m practicing,taking as many lessons as I can…

I’m learning, I’m taking actions to complete this goal.

But how exactly do I go about finding/getting a partner?
Eharmony? lol.

The obvious would be to be more outgoing/social etc. I guess.

I suppose going out more would help to.

In the past I’d ignore most if not all the guys that approached me (being that I wasn’t interested in any of them)

But now when I am approached, depending on where I am, I’ll chit chat with them just for practice sake. lol.

I always use the same line though:

GUY: "Can I call you?" 
ME: "My boyfriend wouldn't like that." 
GUY: "He doesn't have to know" 
ME: (THINKS TO MYSELF: IF HE'LL CHEAT WITH YOU HE'LL   CHEAT ON YOU) "I can only handle on at a time. "

I thought if I said I had a boyfriend enough it might come true :-)

Still waiting… 4 years ago

Every day I see couples, hear about couples and whats worse: listening to your friends talk about their sex lives.

I used to enjoy hearing about it in hopes that maybe I’d have some good stories to tell one day too but alas, I have none.lol.

I don’t want a boyfriend just for the sake of saying I have one and I most certainly don’t want to have sex for the sake of saying I’m having it.

I realize these kind of things take time and its important, to me, to not rush a relationship. Thats never worked in my favor so I’m not doing it anymore.

So everyday I’m hoping and wishing and wanting but you know how life works, it’ll happen when I least expect it and probably when I’m not thinking about it.

And lets be real here, I’m too beautiful/cute/pretty/sexy/nice/funny/sweet/loving and all that good stuff to be single for long. :-) 4 years ago

When I really think about it , it all makes sense.

For so long I couldn’t stand myself, didn’t know what to do with myself. You can’t attract anything positive in that state of mind.

So now I’m more confident. I try to be as positive as I can and see the good in things.

So with that being said I know the guy of my dreams will enter my life soon. I can feel it.

I’m more ready for it now that I ever have been.

And finally knowing ONE person in a normal,healthy ,REAL loving relationship has made me realize there are some great men in the world.

So whoever that lucky man is: I’m way past ready for you. :-) 4 years ago

I now have a boyfriend I love, however, we’ve been going out for 4 months now and he wants to date another girl in a 3 way relationship. Idk about this. 5 years ago

well that relationship didn’t even last a week and was no sort of relationship, he kinda pulled away after that and i figured he wasn’t mature or ready enough for that sort of thing. anyway, i’m back to my fwb thing but am still looking, trying the online dating thing and meeting guys online so wish me luck :) 5 years ago

well i’ve been fwb, hooking up, whatever u want to call it, with my friend kyle for the past hmmm about a month. I really liked him but didn’t think he felt the same way until he happened to bring it up one night online when he was drunk. a few days later i bring up the conversation and ask him if he would like a relationship. after much discussion, and knowing we hav less than a week before i go back to milwaukee and him madison, we decide to ‘date’ but not be boyfriend girl friend yet. we don’t plan on seeing anyone else but it’s not as restrictive as a bf gf relationship i guess. I’m happy and hopefully it’ll come into something more :) 6 years ago

well i joined an online dating site, so maybe it’ll help me meet ppl who hav similar interests as me or something . my friend is worried because she knows all the stories about meeting ppl offline ending badly but i hope it works out for me 6 years ago

It’s weird, so many guys I know now WANT to have a relationship with me! I mean, before all everyone wanted was friendship or just a physical relationship, and now I have like 5 guys interested in ralationships with me!

But the thing is, I can’t. Most of these guys (Tom, Chuckie, Justin) live in my hometown Milwaukee, and I’m spending the majority of my year up here in Stevens Point three hours away from them so I can go to college here. And the others are in Iowa (Matt) or across seas in the war (Ramon)

I can’t do a long distance relationship like that. With a relationship I need someone to be there for me and I need to be there for them and establish that connection you can only get with physical contact and spending time with a person. I can text message all night long and yes, it’s great and I can talk on the phone with them but a relationship entitles more than that and if I start a long distance relationship it would not be fair to either of us and would just hurt both of us in the long run because I wouldn’t feel secure and end up sleeping with some guy when I go out drinking one night or something and I don’t want to hurt anyone.

So I”m not starting a relationship right now but here’s to hopeing. 6 years ago

well, i’m getting back in the habit of friends with benefits. but i’m moving in less than two weeks. plus a guy i was interested in up in point is single now, so maybe, if i don’t give it up, i can try and have a relationship with him.

only time will tell… 6 years ago

so far in life i havn’t had an actual boyfriend like most people do. when i was a freshman i dated a guy who was a sophmore and we only held hand he never wanted to do anything (well, he’s gay now so that answers that question)

then when i was a senior this guy wanted to be my boyfriend but i said no because it would cause too many problems with my family (my family refused to accept him because he had two kids from two different women and had been in prison) anyway, he’s in HOC now and i don’t return his phone calls just because although i care for him it creats too many problems in my life.

so that’s what i had for boyfriends, nothing i could count as an actual relationship.

when i went to college it was my intent to meet someone and start a relationship, but every guy i met didn’t want a relationship, they just wanted to be friends. i’d end up sleeping with then and so i’ve got this whole “friends with benefits” streak going.

i just want someone to love and care about me, someone i can care about that feels the same way back and that can be there for me. i’m so used to sex not meaning anything to me, but i heard it’s different if you have sex with someone you really love.

so i want to find a boyfriend, and i want to have an actual relationship.that is my goal. 6 years ago