My name is hassana, I am tall in looking and honest caring gilr,I saw your profile and was delighted to contact you,I have something import__ant to tell you personally about myself So please contact me directly with this email address ( hassanadlison_13@yahoo.com ) so that I can also send my picture directly to you.and the details i know you will be the good one to be caring regards 2 months ago

This goal didn’t last quite long enough for me to prove to myself that I can be a man.

I accomplished a few little things but nothing that made me feel like “hell yeah, I am a man!”. I mean, had I worked on a car or cleaned the gutters…

I suspect now, at least for the time being, my man will make himself very useful in taking care of said manly duties so it will not be necessary.

I suppose I will go forth with a bit more sense of competency. Or maybe rather with a sense of determination to handle things myself instead of immediately asking for help.

I won’t lie though, the help is quite wonderful.

Men are wonderful. I really appreciate them and would really not want to be one. 15 months ago

got some stuff brought up from the basement, some long since burnt out light fixtures replaced, mousetraps removed.

I didn’t do it. A man did. I hope he enjoyed it as much as I did.

Wait, he cooked dinner last night too. 15 months ago

watch out. I am such a man right now.

Got all the printer stuff, drivers and programs downloaded blah blah, paperwork printed and ready to go.

Grrr. 16 months ago

I can’t find the disk to the printer and need the drivers downloaded so I can print a few simple documents to continue with applying for medical insurance.

This is goofy, it’s been going on forever. I really need to get this done.

I have asked both men in my house, to be honest, and they both blew me off.

Time to man up.

Hell, maybe the teenager issues is more of being a “man” than growing a backbone, now that I think of it. 16 months ago

I am too embarassed to actually list the “manly” type things that I need to take care of so I will just say that I am making a bit of progress.

Manly, in this case, is to mean..things that frighten me or feel overwhelming or too “hard”. 16 months ago

this goal is tongue in cheek. I have no desire to have a sex change.

I was laying in bed last night thinking about some of the things that need to be done in my life and I was absolutely contracting with fear.

I realized that I really have a bit of helpless woman syndrome. These tasks…things around the house, applying for the loan. some of the licensing things, etc are things that I would love to leave to the task of a strong man…however, that hasn’t been feasible.

It occurs to me that I really do wish for a dominant man at some level…to leave me to dwell where my expertise lies in “womanly” things. I have those things covered.

The problem with men who label themselves as dominant nearly never have the ….business to back it up. That is, never can take care of the masculine realm (as I see/feel it) as well as I take care of the feminine realm, as I see it.

I may remove this goal after thinking it through, it certainly made sense in my sleepy brain last evening.

This isn’t to say that I’m weak. It’s to say noone else is going to take care of these difficult things for me so I have to “man up” and just do it.

I do not intend to be sexist at all. I have an idea of what I believe my own gender/personal role to be….if I were in an ideal situation where the workload were balanced. My independence and stubborness has seem to block that plenty of times but I believe with the right man, that would not be an issue because I would, in fact, admire his strength.

This is all in theory of course because that man does not seem to exist so in the meantime, I will have to be the man. Heaven help me.

Please tell me if this makes sense. :) 16 months ago

i am looking for love 19 months ago

my name is cara 21 years old never married. l saw your profile today and after going through it many times then l made up my mind to contact you as my friend. so l want you to write back to me through my email address so that l will give you my picture and for you to know who l am. (caranuteh@yahoo.com) l hope to see your mail OK is from me,

Miss cara 23 months ago