move to Oklahoma

Moving to Enid, OK in 3 weeks!!!

My first entry on how life was just basically nothing but shit since we moved to OKC was on May 8. And at that time, I hadn’t even begun to see the enormous ice burg of bullshit that awaited us because of this stupid state.

My kids were taken away a month later by people whose heads were so far up their asses that even as we were trying to tell them the things that had been going on, even as we tried to tell them that my daughter’s failure to thrive was due to infant reflux, they didn’t want to listen.

My children were taken away by CPS on my husband’s freakin’ birthday for crying out loud! And did they EVER listen to us about the things that were going on with my daughter medically? NO. Oh, but guess what now? I’ve seen recent doctor reports on my daughter and guess what? THEY’VE FINALLY ADMITTED THAT SHE DOES INDEED HAVE INFANT REFLUX THAT DOES AFFECT HER WEIGHT AND EVERYTHING ELSE THAT WE TRIED TO TELL ALL THESE STUPID PEOPLE!

And do you think that we’ve heard a SINGLE apology? A SINGLE “ma’am, you were right all along” or anything like that. NO. Because something of that nature would be logical to say. Kind, even. Fact is, the people that run this state, the people whose actions directly affect you and your family, are too stupid to realize the things that are of a logical nature, and things that are kind are even further beyond their intellectual grasp.

And now this Saturday (November 4) will be my son’s 2nd birthday and I won’t be able to spend it with him. Why? Because of stupid people. Starting out with an EXTREMELY spiteful nurse. >.<

I fucking hate this place and I can’t wait to leave.

If you have kids and you live in Oklahoma (particularly OKC), MAKE SURE THAT THE PEDIATRICIAN THAT YOU TAKE YOUR KIDS TO ISN’T SO FUCKING PARANOID AS TO CALL DHS/CPS OVER EVERY LITTLE THING AND WHO UNDERSTANDS THAT SOMETIMES THERE ARE THINGS THAT YOU CAN’T CONTROL EVEN AS YOU ARE DOING EVERYTHING THAT YOU ARE SUPPOSED TO DO.

Sad thing is that we have 2 other friends who’ve also had their kids taken away for bullshit reasons too.

breathes

Ok. End rant.

Oh! And, to whoever may be reading this: If you’re trying to sit there all hoity-toity, thinking that we deserved having our kids ripped away from us: FUCK YOU. Our kids are the most precious and most important people in our lives. And you know what? They know they are, you can tell just by looking at them in the pictures of them that I have on here.

So, kindly, shag off and rot. And you can suck my left nut while you’re at it.

I’ve lived in Oklahoma.. I think the eastern part is far better. Tulsa for larger towns.. or anywhere east of … is it I 35? I’m sure there are great points to the western part of the state, but it’s a bit too much like kansas for me :)

For us, it wasn’t worth it. We were originally moving to OKC so that we could be around Wes’ friends and to be able to see our nieces more often.

Well, Wes’ friends, the worthwhile ones, are leaving or have left already and some of them we never hear from anyway.

We moved to OKC in February and in that time we’ve only been able to see our nieces twice. And we haven’t seen our youngest niece, the half sister to aforementioned nieces, since October of 2005.

So, we’re here and already I wish we could just leave and go somewhere else. But at least we’re not in Texas anymore.