basically you have to be assertive. it depends on what kind of self esteem problem you have. i think there is millions of different reasons a person can have self esteem. but its all aboout feeling good about yourself either way.my self esteem was based on how i felt of myself as a person becuase i let people walk all over me and never stated my own opinion or said what i think was right or should be said you feel me? so me trying to be nice was my downfall. i refused to physically or verbally challenge(stand up to) people i knew in my right mind i should of. only becuase i wnated to be nice, and actually sometimes i actually beleived i couldnt stand up to them.. but that was rare. i tried to make everybodies opinoins and priorterties better than mine and tried to be nice and timid.. even though sometimes i could just easily knock a m-uffer out. this caused me to get negative feedback from others and in turn lower my self esteem. it help cus i was nice to people but i never could get what i want becuase i was such a panzie. but know im saying fck it becuase i cant take this shit anymore .. im a fcking man and i need to stand up for myself and then from that respect automatically comes and then from respect and authority (at least for me) comes self esteem. and im still going to be nice but i have to be true to myself and i cant let mthrfkrs- get away with shit.
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3 years ago
Journal entry time!!!
3 years ago
I just bought a journal and im going to be writing in it everyday. EVERYTHING that comes to mind. positive things of course, to lift me up through my wonderful life! ITS ON and poppin tonight!
Discovered something strange...
3 years ago
In the books I read, confidence was a mucscle, something that was practice, but even though I practiced doing things that I wasn’t comfortable with, there was still doubt and insecurity, and I really didn’t feel like that I won. But I did learn from my experiences. More in peace with myself now, just calm, and more confortable, can take critism now, and just don’t care much of what people think about me.
