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2 months ago
Work trip to USA now,
so call back to parents and grandma thorugh skype every week.
How to family
It made me 
"A happy family life is one of the foundations of my life. It really gives my life meaning"
How I did it: Hard work and selective choices. Keeping in mind what you want out of life when making decisions. Visualizing how any large decision will translate into my life in the future.
Lessons & tips: Marriage takes hard work and mutual understanding. You only have two options in any disagreement:
-find a solution or get a divoce.
And since a divorce is not on the table we'd better work at finding a solution. Sometimes it takes comprimise, sometimes it takes 'taking turns' and sometimes it takes giving in. But at the end of the day the fact is that I am growing old and raising a family with my best friend.
Resources: Patience and the will to see the other person's point of view.
Entries
MsGadget Doing things with my kids that I've been missing out on
Regaining closeness that was lost
3 months ago
I’ve moved back to Vegas where the majority of my family and kids are. It was a big mistake to be gone for 3 years, my grandchildren were small and I’ve missed out on so much in such a small amount of time. I go to little league games, baptisms, birthdays, family dinner, school events, etc. There are just too many to list. They know me now and they love me.
I’m getting to know my new daughter in law, I’m closer to my sisters (we’re as young anymore), going to sports events.
It was just way too sad being away. I’ll NEVER be so far away again.
Neelish is setting goals.
Aunts and Uncles
6 months ago
Try to call once a week: Bharatmama / Kiranmama / Nirumasi / Kantikaka / Parvatiphui / Santiphui
Neelish is setting goals.
Dad, Masi, Sachien
6 months ago
in 2009 continue calling Dad, Masi, Sachien weekly;
spiraljetty Feeling hopeful and focused
Where do baby pumkins come from?
8 months ago
There are two stories that I have to tell together to make this really fun..
First of all, my daughter is saving money so she just got the kids those little pumkins for Halloween decorations. We saw a bunch of them at a display at the doctors office last week and voted on the scariest, funniest and most beautiful. The people in the office had made about 15 little dressed up pumkin people, like “bat pumkins”, “vampire pumkins” and “princess pumkins”. We haven’t dressed ours up yet.
Then today when I picked up my 3 year old grandaughter from school the teacher told me a great story. They were going to carve a pumkin and she asked the kids to guess what was inside of it before they opened it. Now I have to add that I just had read a book about mammals vs. reptiles to my grandkids a couple of days ago, you know, live birth.
So my granddaughter of course answered the question, “What is inside a big pumkin”? with “Those little pumkins”. Of course.
Fatboygotsick is waiting again
organise my photos
15 months ago
scanned old family photos and put all that I have (which isn’t many unfortunately) up on Flickr.
Fatboygotsick is waiting again
organise my photos
15 months ago
scanned old family photos and put all that I have (which isn’t many unfortunately) up on Flickr.
